We dont have much choice!
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Waar wrote...
Offer something in return... you need to remember she doesn't get anything out of blowing you (most girls feel that way). Offer oral for a week when she's done her p, or do as illumi said and offer some other type of incentive.But she would rather real sex then oral at any time. also.... incentive sounds good..... ill try to think of something.... or if any girls would care to respond....
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Trie the 69 position. This way both male and female partner can feel good and it's still just petting. :P
edit : Um someone sad allready, anyways, that's the way :D
edit : Um someone sad allready, anyways, that's the way :D
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at least you have sex I don't mean to complian but my ex had me blow her multiple times and she only sucked on my cock a little bit and never let me cum. Then it turns out she was cheating on me. T-T
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Lolwut? What the fuck is goin' on here? LAST I CHECKED MY DICK DOES NOT BLEED ANUALLY. WHAT. THE. HELL?
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zachwolf wrote...
at least you have sex I don't mean to complian but my ex had me blow her multiple times and she only sucked on my cock a little bit and never let me cum. Then it turns out she was cheating on me. T-Tdude...
That sucks.
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I HAVE AN IDEA!
GET ANOTHER GIRL TO GIVE YOU A BLOWJOB AND THEN SEND PICS OF IT TO HER!
ITS FOOLPROOF!
GET ANOTHER GIRL TO GIVE YOU A BLOWJOB AND THEN SEND PICS OF IT TO HER!
ITS FOOLPROOF!
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Waar wrote...
Offer something in return... you need to remember she doesn't get anything out of blowing you (most girls feel that way). Offer oral for a week when she's done her p, or do as illumi said and offer some other type of incentive.I agree with this.
For many of us girls, sex is mental and emotional. Unless you're really good at setting up some emotional stakes or heightened romance, be prepared to offer something first. Try turning the blow job into something dangerous and/or exciting for the both of you. Drag her into a closet and fondle her in the dark.
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This is a deeply rooted preference. Many women find oral sex repulsive on a level you cannot fathom. If she refuses to do it DON'T DO IT. (FUCKING PERIOD. I WANT YOU TO HEAR HOW HARD I SLAMMED THAT KEY)
The most common complaint is a suffocating feeling, a mixture of demeaning and actual drowning-like anxiety.
Have real dialogue about this, find out what her problem is. Best case scenario is that you can have her agree to try it. If you do, and she says no THAT MEANS NO. Do not hound her about it, because it's a personal issue, which may end up screwing your relationship (should you persist). The most important bit is to actually make sure that you are listening to what she wants, if it takes 10 minute breaks every time you stop listening, so be it.
(and, yes. Build excitement, romance, and whatnot. It'll not only comfort her, making it easier to try, it will also associate it with sexual feelings--giving you a better chance at repeat offence.)
The most common complaint is a suffocating feeling, a mixture of demeaning and actual drowning-like anxiety.
Have real dialogue about this, find out what her problem is. Best case scenario is that you can have her agree to try it. If you do, and she says no THAT MEANS NO. Do not hound her about it, because it's a personal issue, which may end up screwing your relationship (should you persist). The most important bit is to actually make sure that you are listening to what she wants, if it takes 10 minute breaks every time you stop listening, so be it.
(and, yes. Build excitement, romance, and whatnot. It'll not only comfort her, making it easier to try, it will also associate it with sexual feelings--giving you a better chance at repeat offence.)
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dip it in chocolate and tell her to lick it off XD oh iknow like tell her you'll eat her out if she blows you.
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ShadowWorld wrote...
All you need to do is some 69, that way you both win.What is funny about this situation is that when we did this, she didn't think that I was enjoying it even though I kept saying that I did....
Also I try to bring romance into it but how do i make a BJ something dangerous and exciting?!?!?! Also as a side note this is our first relationship/ first sexual experience and we have been going out for over a year and started having sex about 7 months ago.... so there is some more info for ya....
