What is the most Brutal Rejection ever?

Many of us have tried to ask a girl or guy out and faced rejection and, at least in my case, generally the other person tries to reject the person in the most gentle way possible, e.g. I'm not ready for a relationship and we're better off being friends.

Not everyone is as gentle and some people put rejection in the harshest terms that make the person who asked feel like a pile of crap. So the question is, what is the Brutal rejection you've experienced, heard of, or saw on a TV show.

In real life, the most brutal rejection I heard of was a friend of my cousin's who asked a guy out on a date and he took a look at her and said "you are the ugliest girl I have ever seen", causing her to run away crying. Personally I find that rejection to be funny since the girl in question had made remarks about how, in her mind, Asian guys were too ugly to date so it sort of seems like poetic justice. :twisted:

In non-reality, I would have to say the Rejection in Ouran Host club where the twins toy with this girl before insulting her and ripping up her love letter tops the list.

So what's your most Brutal of all time?

Hmm. This probably doesn't count as a brutal rejection at face value, but I think it's rather... cruel, emotionally, to the girls involved. It was something that I learned a lot from. It's long and boring, so you can just read the final paragraph if you like.

Once, a 15 year-old boy had just broken up with his third girlfriend. None of his relationships thus far lasted more than a few months. While sitting miserably in front of the computer, all of a sudden a girl adds his username on MSN, and they begin to talk. They hit it off immediately, since they are both the star swimmers in the year group. Soon enough, another girl, a friend of the previous girl, also adds the boy on MSN, and all three of them began to chat frequently, whether it be all three of them together, or with the boy alone.

Soon enough, after about a month or so, one of them sends an email to the boy, saying the swimmer girl 'kinda likes you'. The boy already has a crush on another girl at school and, not knowing what to do, acts as if nothing has happened. The girl who sent the mail tells the other girl what she did, and the other girl immediately and frantically calls the boy denying that she likes him. The boy, awkwardly, says 'yeah. I know. Don't worry about it.' The girl replies, obviously disappointed, 'yeah. Thanks. I won't bother you anymore.' And they hang up, the boy knowing full well that her feelings to him were real.

The boy continued to chat with the two of them, but the atmosphere between the chatting with the swimmer girl has become rather awkward, to the point where she would beg her friend to talk with the boy so she could join the conversation as well. And, soon enough, the swimmer girl herself sends the boy an email, saying that her friend ALSO liked the boy.

Unlike the other girl, when she realised what her friend had done, she did not deny it, but rather decided to gather the courage and confess to the boy. The boy, touched by the confession and feeling lonely, but also confused, told the girl to wait for his answer. And so days pass, the girl repeatedly trying to get on his good side, but the boy never gave her a final answer. The girl, embarrassed to ask again, never did, and after a whole year, the girl, all of a sudden, tells the boy that she has a new boyfriend. When he congratulates her, there is a marked change in her facial expression. She forces a smile, and wishes the boy good luck, before going off. The two of them never talked on MSN again.

After breaking the hearts of two girls by being indecisive, and after the GCSE examinations, the final two years of secondary school start. With new classes and homeroom sessions, the boy meets new people. He still has a crush on the same girl he did two years ago. Soon enough, in the space of three months, ANOTHER girl, out of the blue, confesses to the boy over MSN: 'umm, I think I kinda like you.' The boy, not knowing what to do, tries to act calm by replying 'OK...'. The girl tries to type something, but keeps deleting what she typed, and in the end, signs out of MSN from embarrassment.

Over the following year, she does countless things to win the boy's heart: leaving a chocolate flower bouquet in his locker on Valentine's Day, bakes a cake for his birthday, spends lessontime making 'I Love You' cards to give to the boy at the end of class, and repeatedly talks to the boy on MSN. Being a popular girl, her friends repeatedly tell the boy how much she loves him, that she never loved anyone like she likes the boy. Yet again, the boy never gave her a final answer, and the girl, cannot gather up the courage to ask again. The boy seriously considered dating the girl, however, when he discovered a few of his friends also liked the girl. However, the girl he had a longtime crush on began dating his own brother; and, that very brother noticed one of the love cards the boy had received from the girl, and looks up her picture in the yearbook; upon seeing her face, exclaims 'not pretty'. The boy, out of habit, agrees, and any thought of accepting her vanishes instantly.

Eventually, after a year, when things began to grow awkward, the girl tells the boy she no longer likes him. The boy, relieved, offers to stay friends with the girl. She agrees and they both move on with their lives, but, until now, still has unrequited feelings for the boy.

This story perhaps epitomizes a saying we have in Chinese, 長痛不如短痛; roughly, it means short-term pain is better than long-term pain. Brutal rejections may be brutal, but they ARE short.

Raze, your story sounds like from some eroge.

When you can't decide on one girl and get the bad ending.

Anyway, you know that scene from Family Guy where Meg is asking out some guy and he answers to her "Sorry, I'm in the hospital that day." and shoots himself in the stomach with a needle descaler?

But in reality, I can't really tell one from personal experience, I've never been asked out or something like that, now that you mention it.

Since the only girls I "spend time" with happen to know me for several years, it's more like "Get your ass going and come to my place.".

But the worst I can imagine would be something like:

"Because of guys like you I became a lesbian."

Reaction: laughs, and walks away.

That's kind of a slap in the face.

whoa that was some story raze, like one of those dating-sim game :roll:

even though he was indecisive at least he was popular with 'em girls, right? :wink:

oh salad days, the day when i was green in judgment :oops:

back to topic...
so far...being completely ignored is the harshest that i've ever encountered :roll:

Vaguely reminded me of Ichigo 100%~

Anyway, as for brutal rejections, I can't really think of any. If you ask someone who is obviously a bitch, or not highly intelligent (un-less you yourself are not the brightest bulb in the factory, and then you may hit it off like a pedophile at a birthday party for young kiddies!), then you will end up with a bad result.

Ahahah, I so remember that episode! I burst out laughing when I saw that. Horrible of me, but I did. But the rejection method you thought up is horrible. I've never had a confession turned down (but, I've only confessed twice so far), but it seems to me that if it was as brutal as that, it would probably completely change my perspective of the girl, making her easier to forget ie. you know she's a bitch. On the other hand, if she goes 'umm... sorry, but we can still be friends', I think it's worse because she's so close, yet so far at the same time, if you know what you mean. Of course, the worst case scenario would be the situation I depicted in the story; no obvious answer for a long, long time. You wait, you hope, you kill yourself every day thinking what he/she will say, but nothing ever happens.



Yeah, this would be pretty bad too, I'd imagine. Not unlike having the answer withheld indefinitely.



Haha. Hibia, remember, "Life's no Ichigo 100%".

The story I wrote is a true story, however. So things like that really do happen, but, not in the ridiculously unbelievable way as depicted in Ichigo 100% (or is it? I don't know anymore). The way I see things, if she's a bitch, I just spend the night, say "Thanks for the secks", and leave. Repeat as necessary/convenient. Finding someone who just "clicks", so to speak, is horribly difficult, I think. Or maybe I'm just being too picky.

Saying any more would reveal too much about my life, so I'll stop here.

I don't know, I've never been brutally rejected.. Though a guy I had a crush on a while back had an obsession with his ex-GF and after I told him I had a crush on him, he basically told me his ex was hotter than me.. :roll: Then later on he wondered why I never pursued anything with him. Lol.

When I was in high school, one of the best kept "secrets" was that there was a phone number that girls would give to guys they didn't want to date. If a guy called the number, he reached an automated machine that played a message along the lines of, "Hello, you have reached the rejection hotline. Congratulations! You have been rejected. Feel free to go to hell after the beep." Needless to say, it was reserved for special occasions only.

thank god i wasn't in the same high school as you :roll:
ohh man if i was the guy to received that hotline, i would probably become Nozomu Itoshiki :cry:

i would have mixed feelings:
like a bit of disappointment;
some annoyance;
rolling on the floor, laughing;
and i would have the urge to post it up at FAKKU

That was the opposite of a rejection :shock: .

Some people say that the worst that could happen is the person saying no which is true in the concept that it can only really go two ways but on the other hand it doesnt take into account what the situation is.

For example if a stranger you met in a club turned you down it wouldnt hurt as much as if someone you had liked for a long time had said the same words. :wink:

I got restraining order.

Well, it wasn't really a rejection, it wasn't even a confession either. It was in 8th grade and I started writing these "hilarious" confession letters to my friend Devin. The content was something like, "Devin, everytime I masturbate at night I think of you, I want to have little mes and Devins with you signed big daddy" (I know, pretty immature). So, she takes it home and guess who accidentally reads it, her parents, so there was a this legal issue and the whole written evidence in the court case and....I got a restraining order. Which sucked cause I had like, 5 classes with her.

Lol, I had a friend that got a restraining order put on him during high school. He liked this girl, so he would follow her home on his bike everyday. The girl found out and got scared, so she got a restraining order put on him. To his defense, he didn't know that he was stalking her...lol.


During the end of middle school or start of high school I over heard some girls talking about me. One said "I would date him if he were cute." ....That kinda hurt. XD

In 7th grade a girl who liked me askt if she could be my girlfrend, when i whas going to anser -sure why not one of my frend who likes to try to scare me, came frome behind and pucht his fingers right in to my ribs and i acsedently say somthing (cant remember what but i think it whas somthing like (tanslated) -like in hell! she runs of almost crying and keep avoding me for the rest of the 7th grade.

In response to the phone number that plays a recorded message of rejection, it is actually true. I got this number from a friend because amazingly I I actually didn't get it from a girl.

Its hilarious when you listen to it, but it may only be for my area code.
Rejection Hotline: 386-5397

Haha, yeah. My mom told me of a rejection number way back in. I don't give my number out anyway so I never bothered with it. I hate using phones as it is.