what should i do?

I think you should find someone just a little bit more stable to help you with problems. He's sounds like he'd just make everything worse. :\ I'd just stop talking to him in general.

Obviously if he's making you hurt inside like that then continuing everyday like this isn't a good choice

as for your friends, you might want to consider looking for new ones who you can trust and be open to. A true friend will go to great lengths to help you in your time of need, so I dun know about your current friends...

I think you should stop talking with him. Often one bad comment/talk can do allot more damage than five good ones.

As Raven also states, then you should try to find better friends. Try to find friends that you can talk to in person as a phone friend can never be as good a friend as one you can talk to face-to-face.

Stop talking to him and find someone else closer to where you live...?

As another female giving you advice, I'd advise stop talking to him. Obviously you seem to have some self esteem problems, and as hard as it is for you to see from your side of the fence, there are way better people out there who could be your friend, let alone significant other. Even if it doesn't seem like that right now, the only way things will get better for you or for you to stop hurting is to just let things go.

If you really want to continue your friendship with him, then you need to confront him of your issues. Just be clear and express yourself honestly. I don't like it when you do X, it makes me feel bad when you do Y. Can you please stop doing Z?

Etc, etc.

If he can't appreciate your feelings enough to respect what you don't appreciate him doing to you that hurts your feelings, that's a dead sign that it's apparent he doesn't care about how you really feel. At that point he's just being selfish and you can drop him like dead weight. Any person deserves respect, but I think the people you should expect respect from and trust from the most are your friends, and if he can't even give you that - then he isn't a friend to begin with.

Uh yah, i dont usually trust the people that pop out of nowhere and start talking, they seem to have too much experience doing it. I talking to someone in person, someone you have seen before, or hell even us lol.

@Ziggy, Dam i just read your post and mine looks like crap now. Nice post. I completely agree.

Just ignore/stop talking to the guy altogether and make new friends,like the ones here.^^

Well, I think he's lying when he says he never mentioned it. Should be really obvious. XD

He probably likes you as a friend even though he might not be able to start a relationship with you so I don't see any problem in trying to maintain contact with him. You are comfortable in telling his problems, so please do. =P

Be careful with that suicide and self inflicted pain attitude. People become really manipulative when it comes to that kind of behavior, and quickly try to blame it on someone else as to why they did it.

If he ever tells you that if you do something he doesn't want you to do he'll kill himself, or he did something to himself because of you - don't even give him another second of your time. People are always responsible for their own actions, and you should never have to jump through hoops just so a person doesn't do something stupid.

Just make sure you work on standing up for yourself if and when you need to. Whenever you feel like something isn't your fault, or something isn't right - say something. It'll probably be the one thing that helps you out the most in life.

Q: Have you ever met him in person?

edit: You should have realized by now that a relationship like that cannot work. Just stop talking to eachother and move on. Sucks but there really isn't any better way. Unless you want to keep him around to make you more miserable.

I got the vibe she was emo too?

If you don't like him than don't be his friend. Its simply really, it's always bad to force yourself to do something your uncomfortable with, especially with relationships/friendships.

. . .ditch him.

I agree here, but You(OP) should have more awareness of whats going on. If he continues to make you feel like crap, forget about him. If Talking about your problems makes you feel better, but if he makes it worse or trying to share his ideals with you(had this problem, settled it with a therapist.. I mean seriously talking about your problems totally helps you out, but talking to the wrong person.. yea.. - no). Mental breakdowns hmm, had those before, I'll admit it too, I have cut myself in the past but not to the point of suicide just to relieve stress and frustration, but having the scars yea.. added more. What I did when I had those problems is trying to rethink my life, change up my lifestyle a bit.

I wouldn't say his emo, but Troubled. The way I see "emo kids" is basically the kind of person who bitches about everything and etc.