Tsurayu wrote...
It's more complicated than that all of that. They say communication is the most important for a reason; if I think the changes in someone close to me is not for the better I will bring it up and discuss it with them. Idealistically it sounds great to just be accepting of anything comes your way, but I don't agree with that. Sometimes you have to confront a person.
Or think, perhaps consider if you are the one chaging? hmm? hmmm?
But yes sometimes change is not for the best and you must bring it up to someone. Perhaps they do not know they are changing, or are on a slippery slope and need intervention. There are ways to help them...
See, step one you say you need to talk, if they walk you say sit down it just a talk. They'll probably smile politely back at you, you smile politely right on through. If there is some sort of window to your right, as he goes left, you stay right. Between the lines of fear and blame, you might begin to wonder why you came.
jk(incase you didn't know that was just the first verse of "how to save a life" by the fray)