nacho wrote...
Oriens Astrum wrote...
But why is it that people assume things with out thinking enough to ask to make sure they don't fuck up.
It's a routine work, and performance in a routine work is characterized through experience. And the experience is most likely that a very high percantage of cases of such an order from a couple is the lady being herself too elegant to eat meat and thinks it's wrong and the guy not able to think five seconds ahead when making his order. Hence the experience had him make the decision for the routine to serve the girl the salad. You also generally want to keep conversations with the guests as little as possible when it's a couple.
This is basically what my general response to this topic would be. It's really a matter of what is typical. You can't exactly tell a vegetarian by looking at them, and if you see a man and a woman at a table, it is very very rare that the woman would eat a steak and the man would eat a salad. At least in the US, that is. I don't know about the rest of the world's cultural views on that sort of thing. But it's just the way it goes, because it's at least 95% true.
And as for the server remembering who ordered what; in a lot of restaurants, especially during rushes, the server who took your order isn't necessarily who brings you your food. Anyone with the time to do it will generally run food, and if a place is busy enough, sometimes there are people that come in for the sole purpose of running food. The seats are generally on the ticket, but they aren't really payed attention to. So most people will ask, but in this case, because of how rare one of the scenarios is, they will assume the most likely.
I was GOING to just be a general dick about the whole vegetarian thing; but everyone else seems to have done that, so in the interest of fairness...there are good reasons for people to be vegetarians. And really, people's bodies are different, and what is healthy for one person, may not be healthy for another. Generally, whatever you feel like doing is probably ok, just don't be a dick about it.