Your parents ever beat you?

yeah my dad did but he was easy on me compared to my grandpa!!!!!
oh and I agree kids are way too spoiled now.

Yes I agree. When I see kids now, they act like they're "the shit". IMO they are rude, arrogant, and obnoxious. I swear our new generation is turning into low-life douches, skipping classes, smoking (freshmans in high school), having the word "fuck" in every single sentence that comes out of their mouths. It's sad, really.

I have to agree with you kid these day is act like they're a big shot or something, I even see the elementary school kid smoke, drugs, act like big shot or something...but I can't blame the kid 100%, they became like that mostly because the influence and the way their parents educate them, so the parents are taking blame too here, but the environment is take part too here, whatever the world now is turned shit...

as for the beating stuff, my dad is people with military-strict disciple, he's hard to his child I receive a good punch few times because often involved in a brawl when in junior and high-school

when i did wrong yes
but the day i equalled my dad in height he tried yo hit me and i grabbed his fist

I don't think kids today are any worse than they were in the past. When I was a kid, there were kids who were arrogant, cursed, smoked and did drugs, had no respect for their parents, skipped classes, etc., and I'm sure if I asked my dad, he'd say there were kids like that when he was a kid. If I had a grandfather, I'm sure I could ask him, and he'd say the same.

You may be right but that's just what I see around my old school area.

got beaten with a stick when i was a kid but i guess i built an immunity with all those beating, not bothered by it anymore (--)

kid these days need more beating, i just cant help but beat the crap out of a kid 2years younger than me for acting like shit...

haha..got hit too many times that i lost my interest to count. with various methods too...but well, i couldnt care less anyway. i just think that as long as i'm leeching their money, they can do whatever they want. when i'm able to support myself, well, buh-bye. i dont want to see them again, and i bet they dont want too, right?

I'm going to spank my kids... no question. I was spanked and even when the threat of spanking was in the air I cut whatever bullshit i was doing out right away. Sometimes they would try to spank me but would miss or not get a good hit in and I would cry anyways... Im glad they spanked me, made me the man I am today, epiclymanly.

Oh yea, this brings back memories, "what did you say?" *bam* "I told you not to..." *bam* etc. I totally agree with you there, and I will be spanking my kids(if i have any) and right now I wish my sister would do that with her kid, cuz she's really turning into a spoiled brat.

I've got few times punched but nothing like with stick. Hehe but if they would attack me with stick I would probably defend myself

I was a violent kid. I would destroy or throw pretty much anything. When I was twelve I threw a kitchen knife at my mother in anger, and my pops just snapped. He dragged me into the car and went to the store to buy some rope, and then took me deep into some nearby woods. Ok, maybe not deep, but out of sight from the prying public. He then tied me to a tree and told me that "if [I was] lucky, the animals will chew the ropes and [I'll] be able to find an orphanage" and then left me there.
About 2 hours (could've been 10 minutes, things always seem longer as a kid, especially when you're tied to a tree) later he came back and untied me, probably after confessing to my mother and getting pussy whipped into coming back.
That's my worst child abuse story, even if it was less abuse, and more "Jesus Christ, this kid nearly killed my wife!"

There is a difference between disciplining a child and beating a child up for no apparent reason. The first is in the best interest of the child (mostly), with hopes that s/he will grow up to be a useful person to society. As for the latter, it is what we would call "child abuse" or "domestic violence", which is usually against the law in many places.

I believe it all boils down to the intentions of the parents.

Looking back, I am quite glad that my parents caned me whenever I did something wrong. If they did not, I may not grow up to be who I am today, perhaps hanging with the wrong side of society.

No. Looking back at it, maybe they should have spanked me from time to time everytime I did something wrong. If they did, I probably wouldn't have been such an asshole during my early teen years.

Meh.

I couldn't help but fukken lol. :lol:
No pun intended.
And yes, my dad did.
I've done stupid things as a kid to deserve it too.


^This. I agree I might not be who I am today, but not so sure on the wrong side of society. :shock:

My mom had a wooden spoon. It was in the drawer with all the other large utensils like spatula's etc.. but she'd either make me go get it myself and hand it to her to get beaten with, or she'd just storm up to me and smack the shit out of me.

God I'm so glad she did.

I don't see what the big deal is. I wasn't traumatized or anything, and it sure as fuck made me think twice before doing something I wasn't supposed to.

My brother pulled the 'I'll call child services on you!' with her once. She handed him the phone and told him to do it.

She also would pull the car to the side of the road and tell us to get out if we were misbehaving. Like once I remember telling her I didn't want her for a mommy, and she pulled over and said to find a new one then.

That shit messes with you lol but it makes you think twice before you say something you don't really mean.



I sorta feel like you have to start that right away with a kid. Once they get to a certain age I don't think they'll understand why they're being hit, unless they've been hit for things they've done wrong since day 1 (aside from being a baby etc)

yes... my Dad treats me like a punching bag... :D :D :D



my mom used to do that to me too! that hurts like shit! last time she did that to me she broke her wooden spoon! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Look at sig.

The most severe punishment I've ever received was my mom breaking a raw carrot on the top of my head.

It hurted more than I thought it would P:

(Okay, I probably received some spanking but the carrot is what I'll always remember. My parents are nice and preferred yelling at me over beating me up.)

I think that is officially the saddest thing I have ever read on the internet.

Reading all this makes me never want to have kids. I mean, I already don't like the idea, but thinking that my kid would throw a knife at me or do something horrible that would require me hitting them hard, that makes me want to never have sex again, just to ensure that I never have a kid. The simple stuff, like siblings picking on each other or the kid saying that they hate me, that's to be expected, because kids are selfish idiots, and I think every kid has at some point said (or thought) that they hated their parents. But acting up so much that they need to be hit with a stick, on many different occasions, in order to learn what the fuck is right and what isn't, that's crazy. I thought only like 10% of kids acted like that. Looking at this thread, it seems more like 1% of kids isn't like that.

What the fuck happened to me? Was I, like, Jesus reincarnated or something? My dad has bragged to his friends before that he never had to spank me past the age of four, and I don't recall ever being spanked or hit in any way. I am serious here; why the fuck was I a good kid?

I think I'm gonna get a vasectomy.