Bullying

Pfil dang I usually do feel sympathy for anyone or anything(hell even myself)but I read your statement and felt like dang...This person went from two different stages to two different schools and regardless of circumstances STILL had too deal with bullshit. Then when you finally got some bite people backed off. Then the next stage I hate the most because I did it too...The stage when anyone and I mean anyone be them friendly or not approach you. You bite their head off because you do not want too deal with the shit you had too deal with in the past. I understand it is like some mental defense. Well at least you(like I) admitted too yourself where you were wrong. In the end that is all that counts...Realizing where we are wrong.

I mean just too sit there and say I have done nothing wrong is just plain wrong...especially when you do too others what they have done too you.

I hate bully's, If I ever see some one getting bullyed I do what I can to stop it.

I find these campaigns to be rather odd cause when they show an example of bullying it's a pretty weak example of bullying I'd say it's just a bit of teasing nothing to be too worried about compared to the kind of bullying I was used to as a kid I was striped and beating by gangs of bullies every day. I can't help but look at some of the examples and think to my self is that all it is.

Often schools would punish the people being bullied. I remember complaining about being bullied and I was punished for taddling. I've known people that were expelled because of their behavior because the school wouldn't do any thing about them being bullied.

One thing that I was thinking about though if I was to fight back at a bully and win doesn't that make me the bully. I remember there was this one guy that would join in with other people bullying me and I remember crossing paths with him at the toilets and he acted all nice and friendly and I was like WTF the other day you were beating me up now your being friendly lets see how you like it so I smacked his face into the urinal as he was taking a piss and said DON'T MESS WITH ME AGAIN OR YOUR DEAD and he never did but I can't help but think I was the bully.

fighting wouldn't make you the bully, unless you take it to extreme lengths and after defending yourself begin tormenting the bullies. the thing that happened with the urinal incident is the fact that the bully's audience was absent, without an audience its not fulfilling for the bully, therefore, they'll have no reason to pick on you and they'll see you as a peer, that is until they regain an audience. That's why i think if your worried about physically taking revenge, then use mental tactics, take the bully's audience away by making them laugh or something.


Bullies are nuisances to the school place, they cause disturbances and unrest. There are many cases where bullies cause severe problems with other students and subsequently, the other student might end their life. In my opinion, a bully stores cowardice within themselves and mirrors their cowardice on others. Bullies are used to being inferior to people higher than themselves in their caste system, therefore, they make it a fact to themselves that they are above someone else of their caste system. Closing, there are many ways for people to handle bullies but the greatest weapon one can use against a bully is their mind. The mind is the greatest weapon because it’s the tool they can use to outwit their opponent, with the mind the bullied can display their valiance and gain the respect of the bully because when it comes down to it… “The mind is the ultimate tool, it is the basis of the body; it functions as a society, its as valuable as any jewel.”-Charles Demetrius Wright J.R.

This is the conclusion to the senior project on bullying i just typed, if someone would like to read the rest (its incomplete, needs editing) follow the link to my google docs.

Bullying is a huge issue because we as individuals grow more apathetic and we as a society grow more anal retentive. In some aspects people being bullied can't help it, it's just how they grew up and asking them to stand up for themselves is not possible, they don't know what or how to do it. It becomes self learned helplessness. Growing up, I learned to not take shit from people that try to degrade me. In addition, I couldn't help but stand up for people who can't do it for themselves. People may call it being nice or protecting them, but I don't think it was some noble shit or anything like that. It just annoyed me and I did it for myself, because I just can't stand the pathetic nature of bullying from both the bully and the victim.

The problem with the media and people trying to solve bullying by reporting it to teachers and higher authorities is that that's not how this works. The authorities can only do so much that ends up not really helping in the end. People just need to give more of a shit about others in general and lend a helping hand when they see something going down, whether it be bullying, fighting, abuse, etc.

I'm curious as to know what you consider bullying or what type of bullying you went through. So in order for someone to function well they have to be harassed, which can cause depression, suicide, and other side effect? Also read this http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/articles/2010/11/28/inside_the_bullied_brain/


Then what type of bullying are you suggesting makes a person stronger when any form of bullying is causing displeasure to the victim. Also harassment: to annoy persistently (2) : to create an unpleasant or hostile situation for especially by uninvited and unwelcome verbal or physical conduct.

I was bullied from pre-school all the way to the end of highschool. Bullying affected me most during elementary school. I shouldn't complain though, I can be a total jerk sometimes as well, but the presence of bullies in my life taught me an important lesson. When I first started getting bullied, I went to every adult I could and they gave me the same excuse "leave it alone, they are probably facing tough times in their life" y'know, that crap, the crap guidance counselors and parents use when their too lazy or too scared to get involved. Late elementary school to early middle-school was filled with a lot of thinking. In 8th grade, I learned the very important lesson I mentioned before, the lesson that ultimately prepared me for social life in highschool. "Wait a second...a lot of these kids aren't going through tough times, some people are just JERKS!". From then on, I just ignored them because, let jerks be jerks, I never told myself that because I wanted to make them angry or because I thought they were going to get whats coming to them...I thought that because I never wanted to give them the satisfaction knowing I care about what they have to say.

I only experienced bullying during on my 5th and 6th year of my elementary days.

They kicked me in the back, threatened me for money, punched me when they feel like it.
i can't do anything about it. i hate those days. being weak and they tease you like shit.

good thing i transferred schools. i never saw those stupid A-holes again