@discordia
It took a little bit of thought, but I can now, definitively crush your argument or at least derail it. You're position is a simple form of determinism, which is extremely rigid. The bulk of your argument is centered around what you said here:
nope, there isnt fate. but just consider how your judgement came to be. its the result of a series of imprints and knowledge and experience and will always come to the same decision if the situation is the same.
lets say you could chose between A and B in this situation and given your disposition or judgement or whatever you wanna call it, you would chose A. why would there be a need for a parallel universe where you chose B and for your judgement to make a different choice it would have to been either altered in some way or the situation would need to be a different one, which would thus create not only a parallel universe upon this decision, but with its very own and different past too...
What you fail to acknowledge is the past and fact that people are able to experience new things that are beyond what they've come to know. In these situations, their existing judgment may not apply the same way, if it does at all. By your logic, what would happen here? If you find yourself in a new situation, that requires a new way of thinking, and up until this point, you've been relying on knowledge you have based only upon the experiences you're familiar with, what do you do? You've hit a fork in the road. You now have to make a choice with nothing to go on.
Had the linear chain of cause and effect that supported your argument existed, you would never come to such a situation. New experiences are inevitable and regardless of whether you failed to take that fact into account or you overlooked some minor detail, you need to go back and rethink what you've been arguing. Even if you go through the rest of your life with the same type of situations where you can apply your logic and judgment repeating, at multiple points earlier in your life, you have to had come across situations that were, at that time, new. As humans, we learn right from wrong, through experience. We have people who help us along, but unless we do things for ourself, there is no way to truly know.
I don't know if that sounding condescending or anything, but I don't mean any offense if it does.