Andoru-Kun wrote...
K-1, I have no experience with Asperger's or autism in general, so take the following lightly. I mean no disrespect, and I can agree with most all of the point-of-views presented by people so far. I wil be be brutally honest here, common knowledge on the affect of autism on an individual tend's to be non existant. People are aware of its existance but, most give no thought to the actual depth of the disorder. This lack of awareness effects overall interest in the pursuit of possible treatments and, most of all; funding.
It is my belief that a cure should be found if possible, with individuals treated on a case by case basis pending personal desire and how greatly their autism affects the quality of life for said individual.
I'm not so shallow as to pity you or apologize for the cards the genetic crapshoot dealt you, but I can at least sympathize with any pride you have.
Life's pretty damn short, and time only seems to flow faster as you age, so don't let the petty shit stress you out.
Thank you. It is rare to find someone with such sentiments, even when the subject of autism isn't involved.
Since it seems natural, I will explain one thing - most of the people that want a cure for autism are family members of autistics. This can be viewed as either good or bad. Good as in they care for their loved one(s); bad as in they have an agenda.
Part of the backlash against a proposed cure comes from such family members saying that they want a cure. To a person with autism, having a parent or sibling say that they wish the person was, basically, a completely different person can be extremely damaging, and even if one never hears that from their own family, hearing it from the family of a person with whom they can relate can still be damaging.
I'll try to put this more simply: I don't think autistics against a cure get offended when a person without autism and no family members with autism (a person with just common knowledge of autism, as you put it) says that a cure should be sought. Instead, they get offended when a person that is close to autism says that there needs to be a cure. It can be hard to balance the idea of accepting a person yet wanting to change them, and because a lot of autistics suffer from feeling like outcasts and like they don't belong, hearing a person say that they should be changed can make them defensive. It can be very hard for an autistic to have good self-esteem in this world because of how they stand out, and it can be extremely hard if they are told that they don't belong as they are, that they need to be fixed. I believe that is why many adults with autism are against the idea of a cure, or at least part of it.
I've tried not to interject my personal feelings on the subject and simply relay information that may be useful, but it should be noted that most of what I have said are opinions, gleamed from what I have seen and heard. I am far from an expert on the subject of autism or how people feel about autism.