dirty little slut

so, during a late night romp in the sheets, my boy for the first time calls me a "dirty little slut"...

i admit, it was a turn on in that whole, don't hurt me/hurt me way, but it was strange afterwards.

my questions are... is this a normal thing for a man? (here's the girl in me) should i feel lower now that he got off thinking i was a dirty little slut? and finally, is it a big turn on when you say that to a girl and they get into it? (i would give you details on what i said, but i'd be this... :oops: )

Hmm.. How about his expression?
If he smiling to you, then he really just want to turn you on. Just like what i done to my girlfriend... But she gets angry >.<

I don't think he meant to insult you; he probably assumed you'd find it hot too. Dirty talk during sex can be awkward and offensive when both partners aren't on the same mindset, as you've experienced.



It's not really a matter of should but a matter of do- do you feel lower? What's right for one person is not always right for another. You need to be frank with yourself and your boyfriend about the matter. Were you turned on or turned off? What sort of emotions did you feel afterwards? Do you see yourself allowing this again or is it completely off limits? That sort of thing.



Yes, I do find it exciting. However, in the kind of relationships I favor, it's a standard part of the sexual lexicon.

Hes enhancing the experience for you and himself, if it turned you on it obviously worked lol . When I say that kinda stuff in a situation like that I don't mean it at all. Some guys like me might think it helps or it makes it seem more fun. Just don't take it seriously because hes not.

back than cosplay and now a lil' bit of masochist :shock:

this is what i call awesome(and healthy :P) sex life

hahaha, i think i enjoy the cosplay more... :)

in two weeks we'll have our anniversary... so "Faye Valentine" plans on waiting for him when he gets done with work.

for the dirty comment, he was smiling and i really don't think there was harm behind it. it just took me off guard. he'll have to be the one to bring it back, otherwise, i'm a roleplayer... and i'm not talking about slave and master either...

Communication is always important, even during sex. Partners tell each other what they like or dislike and the same can be said for the words used in dirty talk.

Then again, my words may not hold much weight, since I have been single for the past 23 years of my life...

:cry: :cry: :cry:

please be my girlfriend, lol just kidding :P

My boyfriend and I talk dirty like that to each other when we're intimate. I'm fine with it but I guess everyone has their own taboo's about what to say and not say between the sheets.

i think i'm going to give it another try. the next time were in the moment, i'm going to say something like ... "I'm such a slut..." Let's see how that plays out. I'm okay with it now, it just was... out of the blue. thanks to all that commented, you've helped me feel more comfortable with it.

ps - gizmo... if things don't work out with me & the boy, i'll keep the faye costume out just for you... hehehe/jk

I think that you should call HIM a dirty little monkey whore.
See how he reacts. If he likes it then you two will have an even funner time, if not Im sorry I got you in trouble.

hahaha

My girlfriend is always telling me "You're My Bitch!" if you can tell me what that means when a girl sais it?

lol nice joke, +1 rep :wink:

...so you are a dirty little slut.

hmmmm, I might've went too far with that one..uh...j/k?

I can't WAIT to pop this one off! I'll prolly ruin the moment from laughing so hard, but it think it's going to be worth it.

And this is what i think your girl is telling you... "I'm going to ride you, MY WAY, until you can't walk right... therefore, do it my way because you are my bitch." CONGRATS!!!! :wink:




touche' my friend! touche!!! :lol:

I would guess that he was probably just trying out something new to see if you'd like it. Hell, he was probably worried you might stop and glare at him so I have to give him points for being brave. About the you saying "I'm such a slut" or such things though....I dunno, if my gf said that I'd probably give her a pretty confused look or burst out laughing. I think you should probably stick to calling him...something... I dunno, I SUCK at dirty talk, my mind is usually other places at the time.

I'm going to have to say it depends on the guy, but you can always work things out.



Well, if that's all cleared up then...

Slave/master roles are quite common...maybe an idea off something from FAKKU then? Cosplaying optional, though it should be quite entertaining either way...

Lol.

I think my girl would rip my dick off if I called her that.

i did the whole sailor moon & faye valentine for him... and now a have a big diamond ring... so ladies, if you hear me... tap into his anime fanatsy, not only will you get great sex... but a big ring to show for it! ;)