CaffeLatte~ wrote...
To elaborate: Do you talk, act, or behave differently in the Internet? If yes, why so? If not, why not and what is your opinion on those who act different Online?
I answered
yes and wonder if I'm the weird one out? People usually get more outgoing and open and talkative when online but I'm the opposite. The reason why I act differently online than offline is because I get more nervous when I'm online. When something first is leaked to the internet you can never retrieve it. It will spread and you never know who is lurking and who will see it. While offline I feel like I have more control over the things I share. Also I like being able to read the person I'm talking to which I don't feel like I can when I'm online. You won't know if you bore the person with all your babbling and if you hit a topic which you better avoid. I'm very insecure about myself so I tend to adjust myself to other people's liking offline so when I get online I get all stiff and nervous. I don't know what to say and how to act. I get really bad at starting a conversation and tend to let others push me around. I'm scared of people judging me and start to spread rumours about me. Especially on forums like these where a lot of the members already know each other and some are really close. I get overly negative and super self conscious, while offline I'm more cheerful and barely care about other people's opinion and just do whatever suits me though of course I never want to be rude so I adjust to match their norms and limits. Also offline if I don't go well with a person I can avoid the person and interact less with them, but on communities everyone can butt in if they want and information spread like a storm.
Of course there is still some part of me which is true to the real me which I do both online and offline. I still say things bluntly and speak my mind. I'm still as honest as I am offline. Though I'm bad at speaking English I feel more secure about writing but that doesn't stop me from writing/talking like a waterfall. I can speak for hours without stopping, while online speaking gets difficult and writing is so much easier but without reading the person I don't know what to say. It is all a bit complex for me, but I definitely act differently online than offline ; _ ;
I hope it made at least a bit sense?