ZeroKing wrote...
I really am just asking if you guys think that this can go away.
Not with today's current generation of women, and certainly not the next. I'm not so paranoid to think that every woman is going to be a bitch and a whore, but lets face facts. People who are loud, obnoxious, and stupid come to light far more often than people who are quiet and prefer to not go shouting opinions when they think they've been wronged. This goes for both men and women. I'm no stranger to how big of a douchebag men can be; 'cheaters' and 'horndogs' are names that men of my generation have most definitely earned. I think wife beaters are bullshit, because no man needs to start throwing fists against his wife/SO just because he's mad. Men don't need to go slapping some chicks ass or flat out molest a girl just because they like what they see. A lot of men this generation have no self-restraint and truly can not be trusted with...anything really.
But let me tell everyone here, that there is a major difference between the bullshit men throw at women, and the bullshit women throw at men. A man will not falsely claim rape against a woman because she broke up with him. A man will not start spreading lies and rumors about a girl because he was turned down. A man does not try to steal another mans woman, simply to spite another man (I've seen women do this A LOT). Lots of men and women this day and age are full of shit, and ruin it for the rest of both genders. Thing is, a majority of men will not try to make up some excuse, or try to shift blame on to everything but themselves.
Feminism today is a joke; a pathetic shell of what it was originally intended for; A womans right to vote? Fuck yeah. Equal wages? Make it rain ladies. Equal employment opportunities? Abso-fucking-lutely. It's unfortunate that only one of those has been fully completed, and I support trying to complete those other two goals. What I refuse to support, is attempting to take those things away from men in order to reach those goals. It's not equal opportunity if women think it's only fair that they get the job, when expecting the company to turn down a man (even if he's more qualified) at the same time. It's true that if one person gets a job, another person doesn't. But women seem to think that equal opportunity means that they have more of a right to that job than a man.
Misogyny is misogyny, we make no attempt to hide it. Feminism, however, has rapidly become misandry, and most women will readily deny anything of the sort and call you a misogynist pig if you so much as breath a word about it. And your right, it's impossible to fully understand the other gender in the way you described. But what's not impossible is making every attempt to try, and I don't see women rushing to try and understand who a man really is, whilst expecting their man to know exactly what she's thinking 24/7.
And the reason it pisses me off so much, the reason I don't trust women to the extent I will trust a man, is because
women are aware of all of this. They use and abuse it whenever they feel like it, and get away with it because other women will rush to their defense. Some men will rush to their defense to, pathetic 'white knights' who have been so suppressed and demeaned that they grow to believe that a womans happiness should be a mans happiness. Most would agree that a man protecting a woman is a noble thing.
Would a woman consider doing the same for a man?