ShaggyJebus wrote...
Unsigned wrote...
Let's say a your a guy, which is most of you guys. And you have this girl that you love in which you spend ever waking moment together. After a year the girl reveals that she once was a guy and she decided to get a sex change so he could date other guys.
Are you gay? I'd say you'd be partly gay or something...
I guess it would be toward more of the "appearances don't matter, it's personality" debate.
I wouldn't say that I was gay or partially gay because I had sex with what I thought was a real woman. I thought it was real, and the sex change operations try to make the changed body feel as real as possible.
I would dump the girl/man though. No two thoughts about it. Even if you put aside the whole "I really fucked a man" thing, the person still lied to you for a year. "I was born a man" is the sort of thing you tell a person before it gets serious. I'd prefer to know it before I even talked to the man/woman, honestly.
This reminds me of Alice in Wonderland.
Alice didn't think that proved it at all: however she went on. "And how do you know that you're mad?"
"To begin with," said the Cat, "a dog's not mad. You grant that?"
"I suppose so," said Alice
"Well, then, " the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."
also: gay's are fucking cool. AND NO, you can not be born gay. Whoever believes that is just an ignorant wanker.