muff_muncher wrote...
I'm pretty tired of the "It's for your own good if you stay in the closet and keep your sexuality private" argument. Yes, I know you can be bullied, harassed, tormented, and even killed for being gay. But you don't have to be gay to be treated like that. If we follow that logic, I guess it would be best to keep, let's say, "ugly" and/or overweight kids home from school, because they can and probably will be bullied and harassed by their peers. I mean, it's only for their own good, right? Likewise, it would really be best if everyone stayed inside 24/7, because you never know when there comes a long a psycho that would want to kill you.
Seriously, it's not gays that should be careful and protect themselves from being bullied. It's the bullies that should stop bullying us. So if a kid is being bullied for being gay, or a soldier is being mistreated for his/her sexuality, it's not their fault. It's not the victims fault. It's the bastards who bully and harass who are at fault.
Sorry for probably sounding angry or whatever, but... seriously. If I join the military, I'm not going to shut up about my sexuality for "my own good". (Because there will definitively arise situations where people would find out about it.) I expect to be treated with respect, just like every other human being. Period.
Jeez..these arguments are so self-indulgent..ya it's your right to be gay ,and you deserve to be treated equally..bullies should grow up and accept you for who you are..but while where magically changing the nature of these individuals ,and the entire machismo the military of EVERY nation is built on ,lets find a cure for cancer ,and stop the inequality in the workplace ,and blah blah blah..ya in an ideal world you being homosexual wouldn't matter...sadly you don't live their.The world just doesn't work like that sorry, bitch about it all you want , but until society as a whole accepts homosexuals or the type of individuals attracted to the military changes ,you're shit out of luck. So, preach if you must, but I'm not willing to fucking die in a firefight for YOUR rights ,just because you or someone like you brought out the worst in some bigoted asshole ,and he decides to let you take a bullet.