Is bullying really that bad a thing?
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When you're bullied think of your faults, unless you're being picked on because of your religion or w/e. (but people barely do that anymore now it's just stereotypes) If you think you have no fault, ask "why are you doing this to me?" if they reply "just for fun" then it's time to kick some ass.
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In my life, I've been in two or three situation of a person making fun of me. But honestly at those time, i really didn't care. I had better thing to do. I was the popular person or neither the nerd. I was the person who was the background.
No one has the right of be to bullied another person. But isn't a bad thing to stand up for self. Just remember this from all the hardships and roughs road, your growing as a person and soon if that road shows up again you'll know how to handles it. =P
No one has the right of be to bullied another person. But isn't a bad thing to stand up for self. Just remember this from all the hardships and roughs road, your growing as a person and soon if that road shows up again you'll know how to handles it. =P
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2 things first, if you feel the need to bully someone you are insecure, jealous, and/or a coward. Second violence is never ok... unless it is self-defense. It's also ok for revenge. No wait, it's ESPECIALLY ok for revenge. Vengeance is always the right answer.
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TheBlackLight wrote...
2 things first, if you feel the need to bully someone you are insecure, jealous, and/or a coward. Second violence is never ok... unless it is self-defense. It's also ok for revenge. No wait, it's ESPECIALLY ok for revenge. Vengeance is always the right answer.Hehe, someone's been watching too many ninja movies. ^.^ However I do agree it's a good idea to avoid violence when it can be avoided, however again if you piss me off too much don't think I'm going to sit like a rock.
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*Note: Please excuse my Grammar, my English isn't as great*
From the Start of Grade school all up to the 8th Grade I was bullied hard, I was being teased and messed around because I was Asian. I was enrolled in a somewhat ghetto school, when school started I was immediately picked around by the other kids because I was the very few Asians in the school. I'm not sure if it was my grades or my "Good Boy" image but all the Hispanics(If I may) teased me, I was also lead to believe that they were my friends but they just humiliated me in the end.. and no one had my back. Don't get me wrong, I tried fighting back but I can't keep up with all the Verbal/Physical abuse, I got ganged up.
I had only a couple of trust worthy friends so that's what kept me alive til high school. At home, God my father... He Keeps telling me to be a man and stop crying (Around 2nd Grade) due to the excessive bullying, He wasn't very supportive in my cause. Mentally it caused me to have social anxiety and be somewhat of a hikikomori (Which actually made me get into videogames). During High school, it was like a new slate - New School/New Friends, but due to my personality I was usually labeled as "EMO". I Became strictly Nihilistic, Sadistic and Irritated during my school years.
I became emotionless and detached from everybody else. My sister told me all her friends were scared of me due to my straight face and failure to crack a smile. All of high school I Suffered from depression, paranoia, cynical, the utter destruction of trust, and instill burning hatred for anybody who annoys me or even gets me slightly depressed. Most of my years in high school I spent it in DEEP Depression, I was so considering suicide (Due to my Stubbornness and selfishness) , I even had a counselor I met every week to discuss my problems with. The only good thing that came out of it was that I was the most mature out of all my students and retained my gentle manner.
I Totally Agree that "Bullying" Can Change how you become but it can go in a positive or negative way.
All The people who bullied me had this Exact Personality and attitude...
NOTES: Ahhh I really hope all this is readable/understandable , If Not - I'm Really sorry!
From the Start of Grade school all up to the 8th Grade I was bullied hard, I was being teased and messed around because I was Asian. I was enrolled in a somewhat ghetto school, when school started I was immediately picked around by the other kids because I was the very few Asians in the school. I'm not sure if it was my grades or my "Good Boy" image but all the Hispanics(If I may) teased me, I was also lead to believe that they were my friends but they just humiliated me in the end.. and no one had my back. Don't get me wrong, I tried fighting back but I can't keep up with all the Verbal/Physical abuse, I got ganged up.
I had only a couple of trust worthy friends so that's what kept me alive til high school. At home, God my father... He Keeps telling me to be a man and stop crying (Around 2nd Grade) due to the excessive bullying, He wasn't very supportive in my cause. Mentally it caused me to have social anxiety and be somewhat of a hikikomori (Which actually made me get into videogames). During High school, it was like a new slate - New School/New Friends, but due to my personality I was usually labeled as "EMO". I Became strictly Nihilistic, Sadistic and Irritated during my school years.
I became emotionless and detached from everybody else. My sister told me all her friends were scared of me due to my straight face and failure to crack a smile. All of high school I Suffered from depression, paranoia, cynical, the utter destruction of trust, and instill burning hatred for anybody who annoys me or even gets me slightly depressed. Most of my years in high school I spent it in DEEP Depression, I was so considering suicide (Due to my Stubbornness and selfishness) , I even had a counselor I met every week to discuss my problems with. The only good thing that came out of it was that I was the most mature out of all my students and retained my gentle manner.
I Totally Agree that "Bullying" Can Change how you become but it can go in a positive or negative way.
All The people who bullied me had this Exact Personality and attitude...
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NOTES: Ahhh I really hope all this is readable/understandable , If Not - I'm Really sorry!
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I'm completely against bullying.
Depending on the victim, bullying can either be something that ruins their life or something that helps them grow. For anyone who's been bullied you know what it's like. Name calling, being excluded, physical provications, etc. However, this kind of behavior affects different people in different ways.
Some people who are bullied will take it as a motivator to become a bully themselves so they can't be picked on. Others will learn there are people who are like that and just learn to ignore it and eventually get left alone.
But, worst case scenario, the victim's mentality will slowly degrade to the point where they won't stand for it anymore and will either commit suicide or will murder the person(s) that were bullying him/her.
So even though some people can handle it and ignore it until they're left alone bullying affects the majority of it's victims in a negative way. Thus resulting in the birth of a new bully, or possibly a suicide or homocide. So really bullying is something that should not be tolerated.
Depending on the victim, bullying can either be something that ruins their life or something that helps them grow. For anyone who's been bullied you know what it's like. Name calling, being excluded, physical provications, etc. However, this kind of behavior affects different people in different ways.
Some people who are bullied will take it as a motivator to become a bully themselves so they can't be picked on. Others will learn there are people who are like that and just learn to ignore it and eventually get left alone.
But, worst case scenario, the victim's mentality will slowly degrade to the point where they won't stand for it anymore and will either commit suicide or will murder the person(s) that were bullying him/her.
So even though some people can handle it and ignore it until they're left alone bullying affects the majority of it's victims in a negative way. Thus resulting in the birth of a new bully, or possibly a suicide or homocide. So really bullying is something that should not be tolerated.
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While it is something I have subconsciously been trying to neglect and forget, I have been a bully two "times" (different people). When I met one of my victims (feels awkward writing this way, but I guess it would be true) some 4-5 years afterwards I felt like a criminal (justified?). He avoided eye-contact but I know he noticed me. He still looked just as defensive, and I (so selfishly) simply could not manage to walk up and talk to him. Judging from his expression and body movements he probably never recovered much. I felt terrible.
So from my experiences (although somewhat limited), I find it hard to understand how bullying could do anyone good.
So from my experiences (although somewhat limited), I find it hard to understand how bullying could do anyone good.
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There's at least 2 sides of most things in this world. Bullying would be good for the people that can handle and have a need to toughen up or gain whatever experiecne they'd get out of it and bad for those that can't handle it. The once that can't handle it would be the majority and bullying is therefor really that bad of a thing.
Now that's some general bullshit that works on pretty much anything from drug usage to a drivers license but it's pretty accurate. My personal opinion tho is that if you have a choice to go through hardships in life or not go through them. Not going through them is the right choice.
Now that's some general bullshit that works on pretty much anything from drug usage to a drivers license but it's pretty accurate. My personal opinion tho is that if you have a choice to go through hardships in life or not go through them. Not going through them is the right choice.
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bullying is fun until the actor gets killed by the actee.
I personally take the liberty to stop bullying, but I'm no prude. I just know when it's getting out of hand, I suppose.
I personally take the liberty to stop bullying, but I'm no prude. I just know when it's getting out of hand, I suppose.
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At starting i juz got pissed off so i wan like shout at them: ei Fuck off can?
then next thing i know i get bullied more and they add verbal somemore. However time passes i learn how to ignore those shitass like juz laughing when they do dat and den poof! they went other target le...
pity the next through...
then next thing i know i get bullied more and they add verbal somemore. However time passes i learn how to ignore those shitass like juz laughing when they do dat and den poof! they went other target le...
pity the next through...