Is it Wrong?

Is it wrong to have sex with a person you don't love?

Just wondering on what FAKKU has to say about this?

Well, suppose I wasn't a virgin [want it to be 'special'], I wouldn't have much issue with a fuck buddy or 'friends with benefits'.

Whether or not it's wrong is subjective and depends on your values.

As I see it, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. Emotional attachment to the person you're fucking is a nice bonus, but not a requirement.

Well Said. Loving The Person Surely Does Make It Better.

I don't know whether I'd consider it wrong or not on the basis of a universal opinion, but I know I wouldn't. I only want to have sex with someone I love and cherish. Sex with just anyone may feel good for a fleeting moment, but sex with someone you care about is magic.

Who is to say that it is wrong? What is it that makes it wrong? Sex is just sex, has nothing to do with love. As you can love without sex, you can also have sex without love.

But even though I say that, I prefer to do it with someone I love. Makes it so much more interesting.

Nope, its just a matter of preference. I wouldn't have sex with someone I didn't love, but thats just me.

Personally, my first instinct would be to not sleep with a girl who said that it was okay for people to have sex without love. I'd think she was a slut or had a disease or something. That isn't entirely based on truth or evidence, but that's the way I figure it. If you're open to having casual sex, you're more likely to have a disease. That's not to say that I would dislike the girl because of it; I simply would not fuck her.

I'm not a very romantic person, and I definitely don't believe in the type of love that exists in movies and TV shows and books, but I do think there needs to be a lot of discretion when it comes to sex. It shouldn't be something you do just because you're horny, where you're willing to do it with anyone who'll say yes. Not because it's special, but because there are consequences. Every time you have sex, there's the possibility of getting a disease or getting pregnant. If the people who have sex love each other, then at least there's that. They could possibly start a family or figure out what to do together. If Mary meets Billy in a bar, and they fuck, and she gets knocked up, what's she gonna do? Yeah, she could get an abortion, but that's a last-ditch effort. Ideally, people should do everything they can to avoid having to do that. Even if it means staying home at night and masturbating.

Well, if you hae sex with someone you love, itwon't be as akward once you tell her your fetishes.

How do you define love, really? How would you know that the person you're having sex with is the one that you love and not a strong attraction towards? Ok, I'll stop with my rambling.

Ahem, well. Not wrong per say, although, I'd rather go with having sex with a person I love than just a random woman I picked up in a bar. But if you don't have a person you love, the question is: what to do... what to do..?

And, sex is simply sex - not an act of love, in my opinion. You're free to argue with me about that.



Pretty strong opinions, eh? And lol at that last sentence.

So, I'd say no, it ain't wrong.

Oh, and P.S:



+rep for your perfectly valid reasoning, which I agree with.

Hence the item; Prostitues a.k.a hookers

Yarr! Wait... no...

you see, its better to download some doujin or H from this great site rather than have sex with someone you dont love.. at least, when masturbating no one blames you

1-night stands. condoms. That's my life. Sex and Love are 2 different things. When I'm looking for love it's not about the sex, when I'm looking for sex it's not about the love. Although I wouldn't mind having sex with the person I love it's just that... well it's kind of hard for me to love anyone:P

While moral values depend for person to person, love is not necessarily associated with sex or the other way around. While the media and majority opinion wants you to believe that if your in love you have to have sex. Sex is about two things first it’s about reproduction, second it’s about pleasure. So if you look at it like this then love doesn’t need to come into play. You should have sex with whomever you want (them agreeing of course). It should not matter if you love them, what you need to worry about is the dangers of sex, and if you’re willing and ready to accept the possible consequences of your actions. Love doesn’t have to have anything to do with it.

I believe that sex is not a process in which each side needs to share mutual feelings of love. Sex for pleasure has no detriments, assuming that both sides are clear of diseases and practice safe-sex (assuming they don't want children).

Overall, I find that it depends on both parties' view on sex: Is it a sacred process to be held only between the most intimate of parties? Or is it an activity, something akin to a hobby?

In my opinion it all depends on your yourself. If you feel like you don't care about love, than by all means, have sex, as long as the other partner consents. However a big part of the feeling / emotion is lost without love, so it ain' interesting without love from both sides for me.

Well you don't have to love each other to have sex. Some people already said before, there are 1 night stands and fuck buddies. How you want to approach sex is pretty much up to you. Love would make sex more romantic but isn't really necessary.

No not at all. Although I do believe that both parties will enjoy having sex if both are lovers. Then again, some pornstars have big libidos and will usually will have sex with anybody. The only way it would be immoral is if sex was forced or not consensual.