Trust...!
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I only trust a couple people. Even that took me a couple years at least. That's what years of betrayal gets you.
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I trust people's abilities once I have seen them... I trust people's personalities in terms of how they will be.That doesn't mean I "trust" everyone who I know with my own personal details. That being said even the people who I "trust" I wouldn't tell them all of my personal shit and baggage.
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Trust and loyalty are hard to come by these days. Like everyone else, I only trust a few people: most of my family members, and a few friends.
I've only been betrayed once by a friend who turned out to be a social climber but it was nothing big since I got the last laugh.
But I learned to never trust anyone so easily again...even a friend. Just goes to show you that anybody who cares about themselves will stab anyone in the back( of course depending on the situation).
I've only been betrayed once by a friend who turned out to be a social climber but it was nothing big since I got the last laugh.
But I learned to never trust anyone so easily again...even a friend. Just goes to show you that anybody who cares about themselves will stab anyone in the back( of course depending on the situation).
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I feel like I'm too trusting. I think I share a bit too much about myself, especially online.
In real life I'm more closed off. I suppose I'm not that trusting. Very few people know who I really am. I'm too ashamed to admit what I really like to do, the naughtier sides of my personality, etc.
In real life I'm more closed off. I suppose I'm not that trusting. Very few people know who I really am. I'm too ashamed to admit what I really like to do, the naughtier sides of my personality, etc.
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How much I trust people is pretty much connected to how emotionally invested in the relationship I am, weather it be colleague, friend, or a girlfriend.
I used to trust people I liked pretty much 100% but life quickly taught me that just because you like somebody it does not mean you can just trust them, or even that they like you. This went pretty quick for friends and colleagues, but I was actually over twenty before I learned the same lesson in the girlfriend department.
So now a days I can easily trust colleagues, as trust is easily proven by either breaking or keeping agreements, which are often made to work together.
Friends require a bit more emotionally investment, which is why I only have one real friend that I would really trust. Trust is also harder to earn with friends, since it is proven by actions that are more personal, so you have to take a chance to strengthen the trust.
I have plenty of casual friends, but they are only casual, as they can be fun to hang out with, but I would never tell them secrets or confide in them since they have not earned my trust.
As far as girlfriends go, then I invested all my feelings in my last relationship (my first real deep one, she was my fiancée), I told her things I have never told anyone before. Complete trust from the start, and I did everything for her, which meant only time for her, no family and minimum school. She was my everything, and when she left I learned a lesson, now my next girlfriend will have to work hard for every bit of trust as I can no longer just give it away because of love.
I used to trust people I liked pretty much 100% but life quickly taught me that just because you like somebody it does not mean you can just trust them, or even that they like you. This went pretty quick for friends and colleagues, but I was actually over twenty before I learned the same lesson in the girlfriend department.
So now a days I can easily trust colleagues, as trust is easily proven by either breaking or keeping agreements, which are often made to work together.
Friends require a bit more emotionally investment, which is why I only have one real friend that I would really trust. Trust is also harder to earn with friends, since it is proven by actions that are more personal, so you have to take a chance to strengthen the trust.
I have plenty of casual friends, but they are only casual, as they can be fun to hang out with, but I would never tell them secrets or confide in them since they have not earned my trust.
As far as girlfriends go, then I invested all my feelings in my last relationship (my first real deep one, she was my fiancée), I told her things I have never told anyone before. Complete trust from the start, and I did everything for her, which meant only time for her, no family and minimum school. She was my everything, and when she left I learned a lesson, now my next girlfriend will have to work hard for every bit of trust as I can no longer just give it away because of love.
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I want to trust people... and i do trust one or two. Unfortunately when i was young a lot of people let me down, so its hard for me to trust anyone.
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Brittany
FAKKU Production Mngr
My level of trust varies, but I can leap anywhere from not wanting you within 10 feet of me, to completely 100% trusting you.
I think there's a difference from not trusting anyone and letting it affect your life due to past occurrences to learning from it and just being more aware.
So I was cheated on, does that mean in the future I always assume they can't be trusted around other women? Does that make it so I ensure they only have male friends? Or do I just forget about men all together and just stay single due to one other person?
Why should I? Just because I was cheated on, doesn't mean I can't trust another person to love me. They just get the message that if I find out they do cheat on me, they're physically in danger. :)
And I would hold that same principle to myself as well.
I don't get why people go on about how because of one person the whole race cannot be trusted. As someone mentioned: (I forget who said it) Can you trust yourself?
Fpod is very special to me, and he's reached a part of me where I don't even think I had the capacity in me to behave. I crave to be around him, I feel alone when he's gone, and get lonely when I have to sleep in an empty bed. I always felt proud because I was always the person who was comfortable being by themselves, and independent. Not that I don't feel proud now, because I'm still myself, I just find even more happiness when around him.
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On a completely different note. I have an extreme difficulty trusting a person who once hurt me. A situation happened over 6 years ago where my mom and I were living with my Uncle and his lot lizard of an Alabama Southern shit face almost physically harmed my mom in front of us. While the cunt stood there and told bold face lies about my mother and I forcing us onto the streets while she was dealing with cancer and going to school online.
Recently I was yelled at by my aunt because I haven't forgiven him for what he's done. I don't ever plan to allow him in my life again, and I make damn sure to let his southern piece of shit know she better stay away from me and is not family to me.
I'm such a loving person :)
I think there's a difference from not trusting anyone and letting it affect your life due to past occurrences to learning from it and just being more aware.
So I was cheated on, does that mean in the future I always assume they can't be trusted around other women? Does that make it so I ensure they only have male friends? Or do I just forget about men all together and just stay single due to one other person?
Why should I? Just because I was cheated on, doesn't mean I can't trust another person to love me. They just get the message that if I find out they do cheat on me, they're physically in danger. :)
And I would hold that same principle to myself as well.
I don't get why people go on about how because of one person the whole race cannot be trusted. As someone mentioned: (I forget who said it) Can you trust yourself?
Fpod is very special to me, and he's reached a part of me where I don't even think I had the capacity in me to behave. I crave to be around him, I feel alone when he's gone, and get lonely when I have to sleep in an empty bed. I always felt proud because I was always the person who was comfortable being by themselves, and independent. Not that I don't feel proud now, because I'm still myself, I just find even more happiness when around him.
~*~
On a completely different note. I have an extreme difficulty trusting a person who once hurt me. A situation happened over 6 years ago where my mom and I were living with my Uncle and his lot lizard of an Alabama Southern shit face almost physically harmed my mom in front of us. While the cunt stood there and told bold face lies about my mother and I forcing us onto the streets while she was dealing with cancer and going to school online.
Recently I was yelled at by my aunt because I haven't forgiven him for what he's done. I don't ever plan to allow him in my life again, and I make damn sure to let his southern piece of shit know she better stay away from me and is not family to me.
I'm such a loving person :)
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The only way anyone can earn my trust is to go through trouble just to help me. In return, they have a free 30 day trial of my loyalty.
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Ziggy wrote...
I don't get why people go on about how because of one person the whole race cannot be trusted. As someone mentioned: (I forget who said it) Can you trust yourself?I don't think it is that the whole race cannot be trusted, more along the lines of being more wary of how we display our feelings, or how much we feel for another person. I don't hate all women just because of what I've gone through, I still want some sort of companionship. But I'll have to be more careful about how much I open up to another person, and learn to keep emotions in control, attachment issues and such. I don't blame anybody but myself for how I ended up feeling, and how I feel now.
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hmm I trust people generally because I have the belief that for others to trust you,you have to trust others first.Even though they have let me down once or twice,I just choose them to trust them again if I have absolutely nothing to lose.
Meh I guess I am one of those too trusting suckers who dont learn their lessons.
Meh I guess I am one of those too trusting suckers who dont learn their lessons.
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Trust?? Here inmy country there is no such thing as trust you give them a secret they reveal it it others os never trust ANYONE!!!! execpt the most friendliest person in ur life...
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kkill96 wrote...
Trust?? Here inmy country there is no such thing as trust you give them a secret they reveal it it others os never trust ANYONE!!!! execpt the most friendliest person in ur life...o_O may i ask which country you hail from?
As for my brief comment on trust, does anybody else feel that respect effects how much you can trust a person? I'm still trying to wrap my head around it, maybe I'll throw this into another topic, but I feel that respect plays a part in how much you can trust a person, just not quite sure how.
Anyways, I'll leave a quote from the famous Captain Price "Can't be betrayed if you never trusted them to begin with." or something along those lines :P
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TheDarkStarAlchemist
Requests Moderator
I trust five people with anything. They're my best friends.
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Looky-tan
Got Megane?
Honestly I can't trust anyone anymore, I can't believe in anyone, yet I am told I need to make friends, but they tell me to do that I need to give some level of trust towards them. If I begin to trust people again I am just asking to be betrayed and hurt again.