storm102 wrote...
Let's put it in terms of asking a girl out. If you never tried then that girl goes off and dates someone else you're left with regret and a pile of what-ifs to ponder for the rest of your life. If you actually asked her out and she says no then all you have is disappointment. You move on and don't think about the possibilities and then you can find another girl that actually appreciates you or you learned that stammering wasn't the best way to ask someone out.
like i did, i wanted to date, tried, failed, but i said to myself " at least i tried ".