Fligger wrote...
...are people what they think or what they do?
Both really, but let's magnify that.
Perception can be faulty and is subjective. Some people see certain shades of a color differently than other people while some have color-blindness; some have more sensitive and acute hearing. Perception further gets muddied when an individual's views skew the information and when they construe/interpret it differently.
To exemplify the last sentence, let's take a hypothetical (or two):
We have three people. One is a university professor who is eminent in his field after having written several papers that have made considerable breakthroughs; however, other papers that he has published have been criticized and dismissed. He has the belief that he is a failure in his field.
Now the second is a student who admires this professor and sees him as intelligent while the third, another student, thinks of him as pretentious. Their opinions have been formed from the multitude of classes they've had with the professor.
If the case is that his actions are who he is, then there is a conflict: we have two opinions that differ and create two entirely different beings. However, if we take the case that his thoughts are who he is, then he is a failure, but that defies the objective fact that his published papers were breakthroughs in his field.
Now what if we have someone who thinks that they are ugly but is actually isangelously beautiful? Yet another divergence in perception, which is the truth?
Third, what of a hermit who lives in the woods? Is he who he is based on his actions or his thoughts? He doesn't associate with anyone, hunts for his food, and is perceived only by animals. An alternative is a recluse who lives in the city but, again, doesn't associate with anyone else and keeps to himself on- or offline. What then?
I'd say that when thoughts contradict some objective fact, then they become delusions. However, when someone acts only on what they believe to be proprietous (adj. of propriety), then thou don't know everything about that individual, only a superficial affectation. This broaches another point: the location of the individual. In different locations, a person typically assumes a different façade and acts according to it.
Truthfully, it's likely that it is an amalgamation of thoughts and actions.
nateriver10 wrote...
It seems to go along the lines of
«As long as I think of myself as X, I am X». I realize this is more or less the argument used by people with raging emotions of pink and happy thoughts that say everyone is beautiful and perfect just the way they are, and so on. As cheerful as that may be, I think we all know it is wrong.
I don't think that it is entirely wrong, and I interpret it to be more of a motivational thing like "I/'you' can do it!", but there is a disconnect to reality. I think that, for someone to achieve something, there needs to be a prerequisite level of skill. I achieved something when I told myself that I could do it. Doing it shocked me because I tried for several years, on-and-off, to accomplish it.
nateriver10 wrote...
...our actions carry more weight than our thoughts. That isn't to say our thoughts are meaningless, they are of vital importance but if, and only if, they are transposed to paper. Or sound... Or video. Or anything really.
I concur; actions are often weighted more by society than unspoken/unreified thoughts.
bakapink wrote...
With regards to peoples minds, we often lie and trick ourselves for a variety of reasons that can be as small as, "I don't need a break, I'd be fine for another hour or 2" to "I still want to be with ~blank~... even if I am not hap... No I want things to work, so I am happy". Some of these lies we tell ourselves consciously, some without realizing. So when our thoughts can be fake (less than genuine), how do you determine what to value of consideration? Lying is very much a coping mechanism for us to handle stress and difficulty, often inherited through our upbringing.
But aren't those two examples more about perseverance and dedication than about an outright lie? I do agree that they are denying themselves the truth, but they are aware of it, so I don't see them arrantly as lies. Maybe (a) better example(s) would help? Are they coping? I'd say so.
bakapink wrote...
Every experience and every interaction changes us...
I don't 100% buy that. Depends on what thou mean by change. Saying that we gain new information from an experience is true, but the cataloguing of it doesn't necessarily always change who we are, how we perceive, etc.
bakapink wrote...
...We are the product of our memory, without it, we are someone else.
That's an interesting point. Our memory influences our thoughts and by extension our behavior; thus, loss of memory causes a loss of (the original) identity.
Fligger wrote...
Just an additional question... are lies and deception countable for actions ?
It's an action with an abstract quality to it. Essentially, lying is an action, speaking untruthfully, that could be deemed and construed as truthful but, in fact, is a deception; thus, it creates another dynamic to the thought/action divide.
nateriver10 wrote...
...altering the perception we have of ourselves doesn't alter what we are.
Yes, but, as bakapink states (later), it depends on how thou define something. But taking the route of any different definition can be viable only complicates things. So, let's ignore that; it would be correct to say that we can't alter what we are because we are objectively human. Objectivity immediately overrides the idea that thoughts can alter our form.
nateriver10 wrote...
...let's try bravery. You said «You are what you think you are». So, following that, will I be brave if I think of myself as brave? I think not for the same reason as with the dragon example. I may be fully convinced of my bravery but if a fight or flight moment should arise and I discover I'm *not* brave, then I'll find out I've been living under a delusion.
I think that this needs more elaboration because Aristotle's Golden Mean is a good counter to this. So, the person might actually be brave and not foolhardy—he knows when to be brave and when not to (that is, when it's deleterious to him/her)—or cowardly. Context is essential to this argument.
CreamNCheese wrote...
Sounds like Solipsism,
A solipsist believes in nothing, like their body, fake.
Solipsism reminds me of a conversation I had with my friend one late night. I infuriated him because I didn't let it go.