Age wrote...
I think I got a better idea how the game works I think I might restart the game.
So does a fire have to be kindled to level up at it or is it just certain fires?
Kindling a flame means you'll get more Flasks than normal from that bonfire. You can level up at any bonfire as long as nothing is chasing you and enters the bonfire's radius or it won't activate.
Lv 1: 5 flasks
Lv 2: 10 flasks
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(You'll need the Rite of kindling for this and that's gotten by beating the Catacombs' first boss)
Lv 3: 15 flasks
Lv 4: 20 flasks
My Lv 4 bonfire is at the firelink shrine; It's best to make a Lv 4 kindle just before a boss. Also, there's an item you get later in the game that's let's you warp between the bonfires making traveling 10x easier.