1. Get better mods bro.
2. There have been non-replacing armor released (the ones with .esp)
3. Use skyrimnexus.com
4. If that does not satisfy you, go to loverslab.com
5. Still not satisfied? Go look for your stuff manually on the JPN, KOR and CHI sites.
6. Yes you can, but it will still obviously be the unblinking masks.
7. L2MakeCharacter
8. or if you are perfectly fine with a unblinking mask'd character, use setscale code to get the desired height (1 being default, meaning anything less than one makes it smaller and vice-versa).
9. Have some pictures:
http://skyrim.jpn.org/