Can i get some help from the girls?

SargonRose

My Female friend was feeling a little horny so i decided i would help her out. As a promise to myself i wasn't allowed to accompany her as she pleasured herself to teach myself control. after about 45 minutes of typing i started drawing a blank as what to type next. I know she liked it rough like biting and whatnot so started doing stuff along toughs lines. Anyway what I'm asking is for some help from the girls out there, pointers to what you like. Something more specific than what all girls like. If it help anyone I can post the log with names Changed. The reason I'm asking the girls specifically is because girls know how to pleasure themselves, they know what they like. Guys are single minded. The more i can learn from a girl what a girl likes i think the better i can get.

So i cant say that our spelling is bad because of how horny where where or because it was dark. we just both really suck at spelling. >.> Grammar also
If you think i got a little rough its because i know she likes that. im not normally that..crude >.<

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Jericho Antares FAKKU Writer

13 years ago

The thing about subjective things is that they're subjective.

mibuchiha Fakku Elder

13 years ago

All I can say is... log where.

KrystalFortuneTeller

13 years ago

mibuchiha wrote...

All I can say is... log where.

Xenon FAKKU Writer

13 years ago

You're a pretty talented cyberer. The only thing you need to generate through your mind is that you can't fool yourself to love someone simply because of a cyber session. They are completely lustful and taking any feelings from one is more likely to be mistaken for genuine when it's not, especially if it's long-distance. If it works, then fine, but don't shoot yourself in the foot or set yourself up for failure. At least it seems like you talk a bit more than just cybering, but watch yourself. And please don't consider that offensive, I'm just giving you a piece of friendly advice from someone who's been down that path.

But, back on topic. This may be like confessions of a cyberer or something, but after going through an obsessive phase of it quite a while ago, I can tell you that you'll find some interesting things. It's obviously different if your only doing it with one girl, but I'll mention that you'll find Jericho to be absolutely correct in that these things can be subjective. I found some girls to be monotonous in what they liked to hear and it got a bit tedious, I felt like I should just write my stuff out and just copy-paste it to save the time. However, I also ran into two girls in a row who wanted me to describe in detail the act of fisting them. I did it, but it was surprising, you wouldn't think that would be very common. I've also been criticized because I tend to write like you do: Very descriptive and someone told me that it felt like they were reading through the words too much and it was killing their buzz.

So, some people like it concise and rough, some people do like it long and descriptive (especially when they are also fellow cyberers) so you just need to find out what works and make adjustments from there. Like you said, you need to practice to perfect, but you also should realize that there is no perfect as these things are subjective and you just need to be what you are comfortable with being. Some girls tend to like that sense of genuineness. Other than that, you do a good job of asking for feedback because that's how you learn how to tweak what your doing for their benefit. However, don't take their silence as a form of boredom all the time. I ran into a lot of silent girls because when you're trying to help them get off, they tend to need to focus and one small act of responding to you or trying to cyber equally can make them lose that rising orgasm. But the female orgasm (if it exists har har har) is a fickle thing that can be quite confusing, even for the girl herself. Interestingly enough, silence pisses off a lot of male cyberers because it makes them feel like they're doing all the work and it's not equal. But they're right, it's not equal and women don't get off like men do. So, you should learn from and capitalize on that.

Well, it seems like she likes what you're doing so stick with it. Ask her for feedback after your session so as to avoid disturbing her. Learn from her comments and try to remember that you're not studying how to please a girl, you're studying how to please Sara, so to speak. Good luck, my /b/rother.

SargonRose

13 years ago

Well thank you, We talk often enough and this wasn't the first time we did this. may i ask you remove her last name I'm sad i missed removing it in the last few lines. Like i said in the post i wasn't sure if it is love or lust so we are still trying to figure that part out. until then we might just be friends with benefits. We live in the same small town so the distance isn't a problem. I find that unless i know the person well enough writing like this just wont work. Also im always worried someone is trolling me and there a guy XD

mibuchiha Fakku Elder

13 years ago

For one, interesting log there. I recommend you to spoiler it though. And yes, I agree, you're good. :3

Secondly, just wing it! You already got the basics down, so you just need to adjust accordingly as you know your partner better. Not much of an advice I know, but this isn't something we have precise methods to follow to guarantee doing well anyway.

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