@neko: lol indeed. I tend to look at a character's self (for a lack of better word) and judge it based on that.
@xenon: i understand what you mean, but it's slightly wrong. i didn't feel pity at all to the guy. in fact, i hate him. the way he assume things simply pissed me off. i mean, come on, just a movie is enough for him to think they're dating? i thought he lives in a society where even sex doesn't necessarily implies a serious relationship. idk the word, but i expect more 'manliness' from him. but still, i don't like how she did it. I'm one of those who think it's how you deal with unexpected (commonly negative) situations that reflects who you are. the way she did it, i can only think of her as a "It's fine only if I do it" kinda person. I don't know how girls take it, but I think she should have at least respect the love, if not the person.
@aka: duh, ofc. who wouldn't? i doubt being a female has to do with it. but well, look above.
and again, this is but a personal opinion~ just someone who'd like to believe there's beauty in all humans' deepest self~