Big boobs are not incompatible with Gothic Lolita fashion.
Any girl or woman, regardless of her figure, can dress up
like Alice at a Victorian funeral.
It seems to me the issue is that she has sunk a great deal of time and/or money into clothes that really loves but is unable to wear anymore, so she's not keen on doing it again.
If hentai is any indication, the Japanese are positively obsessed
with paizuri---in spite of (or because of) the fact that the average
Japanese woman is too small-breasted to give a proper titfuck.
Big boobs in hentai have a pretty interesting history, dating back to the 80's when flat chests and cute lolita content were the norm such as the mag Lemon People. There was actually some pushback against big breasts because they were seen as motherly and if you liked them you had an Oedipal complex.
However, with help from imported foreign skin mags and experimentation from some artists like Nishimaki Tohru, big boobs won out and there was a boom in the late 80's that continued as artists continued to develop the big boob fetish in different ways.
@623:
Thanks for the comment. I love these informative tidbits.
After googling up Nishimaki Tohru's artwork, I can attest
that he did his best to popularize mammoth mammaries.
I also learned a new word: Chounyuu ("super boobs" or "impossibly big
breasts"), which makes bakunyuu look small.
Many find busty boobs attractive and I totally understand them despite being a flat-favored myself but most busty women, at least to some extent, find them rather annoying, some of my work colleagues were having the same issues. 100% Made in Japan!! from Itou Ei explains their problem pretty well I think.
Chieri: "I didn't expect some kind of Oppai Examination!" Ryosuke bursts in to jarring musical chord
Ryosuke: "NO-ONE EXPECTS THE OPPAI EXAMINATION!"
In The End, Cuvie-sensei operating in Vanilla Mode didst decree: "Let There Be A Hookup!", and there was a Hookup. And the readers saw that it was good, said that it was good, and lo, it was Very Good.