hermitVI wrote...
Let me kick things off by sharing a somewhat familiar quote:
“We are, if anything, creatures of habits. Drawn to the safety and comfort of the familiar. But what happens when the familiar becomes unsafe, when the fear that we have been desperately trying to avoid finds us where we live?”
+1 to whoever gets the reference
And to answer the somewhat rhetorical question:
We adapt (adjust). We deal (cope). We try to find comfort in fear and seek stability among the unknown; only so that we can remain ourselves.
Now, Riku’s the prime example of that. He can’t change himself so instead, he goes about into trying to change the others around him. Without considering perhaps, that these people have experienced much worse than what he’s now. That they, like him, are also coping, just in their own strange ways.
Take Sister for instance, an ex-military man who’s fought in several wars in the past. He sure had seen a lot of what war has to offer-- the death of his comrades, probably even hell itself when he got betrayed and tortured by the woman he loves.
Clearly from his actions today, he’s not forgotten a single thing from his past (nor moved on). One might even (I know I would) say that he’s still living in it; clad in a nun’s dress being the only difference now. Actually, underneath the dress is him wearing his old military uniform. (That, you wouldn’t know, unfortunately, until the second season.)
Need I be a psychiatrist to tell that he could be suffering from PTSD?
Lol. That quotes from "homecoming" isn't it? But yeah. As you pointed out with the analysis of my post before, I believe more in nature and genetics. I also agree with you that environmental can't be spelt without mental!
I guess, to start, what is the defined adult? As you put forth, Kou IS 22 and is he really a defined adult? What are the opinions of anyone for this thread? It is a hard question and I'd like some feedback from everyone!
Hmm... The resistance of change itself... It always is a major factor with accepting people and even yourself in many circumstances. With UB, as you put forth hermit, really puts this quote forward.
With Ric being the main prime example, its like us, going into a completely different culture. I could use myself as an example in this case but UB is already enough of an example. When placed in a difference in culture, people tend to feel uncomfortable and the sense of need to have something 'familiar' to them in order to fit into the culture. Ric again shows this by bringing his 'belongings' to the bridge and building the house under it. This place essentially is a 'haven' for him as he may continue his daily routines [As shown in Bridge 8]. As pointed out by hermit, Ric trying to change people for his own comfort whom are essentially fully developed due to experiences isn't too successful. It's another form of running away from the reality that the creed means nothing within the bridge environment.
This running away from what is unsafe is the ultimate ending for Ric. This "unsafe" familiar he will have to face will be his perhaps last and final challenge to break out of the Ichinomiya creed. It seems that the majority of the crew under the bridge have their own issues. As you said hermit, sister holds MUCH history and this is what makes him act the way he does. Characters like Shiro and the brothers may also have a deeper reason to being under the bridge.
This is what makes this anime so interesting! The amount of depth within these possible issues makes your mind think! Makes you definately feel like a psychiatrist :D.