I'll throw in 2 males mainly because i've never really met the perfect female.
Morisato Keiishi (Ah! Megami-sama!)
He taught me having a dream doesn't mean that it has to be big, One simply has to enjoy pursuing it. I envy that he's able to enjoy the simple pleasures in life which i haven't being able to. The thing i wish to be able to learn from him is debility to be selfish, to not take oneself as the priority , that makes him one of the best males of the highest quality.
Urashima Keitaro (Love Hina)
From a loser at the bottom of the well to a soaring eagle ruling the skies. I often question myself why can't i ever be so focus towards a goal like Keitaro is, the self debate eventually revolves around the center that i simply haven't found a goal in life. Responsibilities, i have but never a goal.
To find route to the finishing line and tirelessly pursue it. I like him as a person alot.