Langmystic wrote...
still a virgin. wish i wasn't because my family is always teasing me about never having grand children. i have had some girls i had been interested in and even given hints that they have some interest in me. I am to afraid to take the initiative. it depresses me to find out that they like me but wont go out with me unless i take action. i just don't want to get rejected.
that is my virgin story. 19 and going strong.
Dear Langmystic,
How do you think the girl feels when you don't take the initative? When she thinks you must not be all that interested in her if you don't take your role as a man and take the lead? Your fear of rejection is understood, but you have to realize this: So what if you are rejected? These girls are not better people or more important to you. The is no reason to think they are better than you, or for you to look up to them. You must of heard the saying "putting the pussy on a pedestal", and that is what you are doing. I wouldn't have a relationship with a guy if he didn't take the lead, becuase I want a GUY - not a pansy. Man up and give yourself the respect you deserve, because you said they gave hints they were interested. So obviously, you deserve to give yourself some respect.
Just a normal girl's point of view.