Chat wrote...
I figured it out; the word I'm looking for is "mature," it's the difference between good NTR and "I FUCKED YOUR MOM, XD LAWL" NTR.
Still failing to see your point? The whole point of NTR is to fuck another person's spouse (usually a man fucking another man's woman). The man NTRing is usually an asshole who had a big dick and rapes the woman he's obsessed with. The woman is a whore because she will usually continue to fuck him even after being raped because his dicks just too good (or rather she's just a slut/nympho). The innocent male in this scenario may have his small dick issues, impotency or idk actually working hard for his family, but regardless doesn't deserve this Jerry Springer worthy shit.
Don't get me wrong I love the cliche of NTR, but nothing will ever be classy/mature about it, unless this was added to the work