Why can't NTR be classy?

So is a "mature" one one like this where the girl sort of gets NTR'd forever but the guy doesn't find out? And the ones you seem to think are so uncouth are the ones where the NTR guy just fucks the girl in front of the wimp and is like "hey she loves my dick now, ain't that right baby?"

That one was ok. The one I linked wasn't because it remained a secret, but because it had some semblance of a reflective point. Of course, I wouldn't say that's necessary in porn, but it's a good acid test for good or bad NTR in my opinion.

As for a bad example, I'd go with maso mess (though I actually liked the art in spite of the artist being somewhat repetitive on the whole/other people thinking otherwise). The power rangers style retard supervillain makes me roll my eyes (in the unamused way, not the ahego way).

Although i enjoy doujins that are NTR and Rape related, I do not have those sexual tendencies/fetishes in the real world. I would not like to be in the situation where i am a victim of NTR or Rape. But it's just something about how dark and awful those themes can be in a story that makes them such a good read for me. Now, i'm not saying i think rape is okay. Being sexually abused as a child definitely makes me against it. But it's just something about the art, the taboo of such actions in doujins that make me enjoy the read. It's honestly weird because i'm one of the most jealous people in relationships although i don't let that become an outspoken issue to the health of my relationships. I believe classy NTR would relate to a plot or story where the person being taken advantage of does so willingly as this would also fall under the category of "Cheating" which in my opinion makes for a better story then the rape-sided NTR doujins. All of that aside, my personal favorite tag would be Ashikoki so i wouldn't expect to be around the NTR field unless it is netori or "netoyuri".

because people who enjoy ntrs for freaks; the kind of ntr ur thinking of is more like a business transaction type setting, which still sucks and could be ntr, but its not like the usual ntr

Well, I'd slightly agree if he added that the protagonist stole the girl from an abusive husband/boyfriend. But I still think that no hentai can truly be classy.

Top hats and monocles for everyone!

'Stealing' someones lover is in my opinion in no way classy but supposing like you suggested the Protagonist were to be rescuing someone from a bad situation, then I could slightly agree that it could be defined as such. But you have to keep in mind that a 'classy' MC wouldn't pressure or coerce said partner, and genuinely just want to help them find a way out; not just preying on a chance to claim the love interest for themselves.

Stealing a girl is never classy, however it doesn't stop me from enjoying ntr when hentai in it is good.

>people reading the OP and not catching up on discussion

Furthermore, saying something was written in a positive way =/= the events within a story are positive.