Bakalova wrote...
well growing up with 3 sisters kinda helps with the no effort thing...u learn what to say, when to say, how to say, etc....and i think because i try just to be their friends, thats what makes them want me...so ehh...act uninterested in sex...just look for friends, u might find both
Well, I have plenty of female friends; in fact, I have more female friends than male friends I think, such that one of the male social circles I belong in call me 'The Pimp'. I figure I'm pretty experienced with women too. The girls think I've got a great personality and I crack them up, but the fact remains I haven't had sex with like 95% of my female friends.
As for acting uninterested in sex, that's basically what I do. In fact, when my girlfriend and I have sex, it's usually her who asks (I accept every time though, lol). However, from my experience, acting uninterested usually only provokes romantic feelings (if things go right). And, more often than not, once you drop that indifference it's difficult to keep her unless she's been on you for a while. As for ONS, that's a totally different matter; thank god for alcohol. =P