Digital First Impressions

Guh, that's a shortened version of your first name, isn't it

Yes, I'm sure you already know it's entirety x]. I've heard all the jokes

That's my ex's name :?

I'm sorry

Now that I have a some what clearer picture all I can say is this.

First off, don't bash the Polo's. I suggested that because of personal experience. People tell me I look god when I wear them it boost my confidence and strokes my ego.

Second what everyone has said, don't make it so they can read you like a book. Relationships are built on truth but then withholding the truth is not lying. Don't go around saying "Hi my name is *Insert your name here* and I'm *Insert something here*"

Be more like "Hi," then work from here. You would not believe how many random people I've ended up talking to just by saying one simple word.

This particular city is rather religious. The older people more so than the younger. Marilyn Manson attempted to buy a house out here once and the local religious groups fought against the purchase of the house. We also have a huge teen pregnancy rate because the people around here are too stupid to buy a condom at any of the grocery stores, gas stations or even Walmart.

Though while a lot of the girls around here will freak the fuck out if you say you are any religion other than christian. Some are rather understanding. All of my friends are christian. Hell, one is a Jehovah witness. My first impressions in any area where I am not face to face is piss poor and that is where I need to fix.

I can understand having sortof untraditional beliefs in a very traditionalist area. I live in Virginia, and my mother comes from a powerful protestant family (her father was a preacher), and ended up with catholic men in both of her marages. Still, has a lot of crazy evangelical buddies. I'm not particularly anti-christian, or even anti-religion (many reasons, wrong topic), but I act like a Luciferian around them just to keep them on their toes.

But my beliefs or anything like that have never presented a problem with women. The first converstation I had with my first girlfriend in highschool was all about rape. So I really think that, just like throughout the relationship, it's just a conection on personalities. But... the stumbling over your own tounge bit might make it hard for your personality to really be seen I guess. I don't know, I guess I just consider those kinds of things in my life...incedental.

oh, and I think it was ZiggyOtaku who said something about how being what you think the other person wants you to be can fuck up a relationship, and I agree with that, and have done that. I didn't, and still don't, really know what my role in a relationship should be, however, then I just tried to fake it, now, not so much.