Do soul mates exist?
Do you believe there is one person out there meant for you?
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YES OH GOD YES!!!... well i say this on my cousins behalf i am :roll: still single, but he and his GF jus seem so right and well yeah thats it... but yeah that is it
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Taking the idea of a literal 'There is a person out there made for you" sort of thing, no, soul mates don't exist. Considering that the gender ratio isn't 50/50 that would mean some people would have the same person as their "soul mate" or would wind up gay...which I guess fills the loophole but kind of throws homosexuality out as a cosmic afterthought.
Anyway, pedantry aside, I think that the concept of "types" is much more realist than "soul mates". Everyone has some sort of concept of a "dream girl/guy" and would be blown away to meet them. Considering the number of people in the world that personality must be present in more than a single person and quite possibly in more than one person you will meet in your life.
Of course, getting with and staying with someone you're ass over elbow for isn't a guaranteed eventuality for everyone so some people wind up single or with people that aren't perfect for them. But still, relationships aren't like jigsaw puzzles. You find someone you like and then work with them to build a stable life. It sounds like a big buzz kill but if you live it it's obviously nice. Even if stability isn't your bag now, even by the time you're just a functioning adult you may not be wanting to just fuck around.
Basically, cosmic mating = nonsense. Odds of someone existing that you could spend your life with = probably close to 100% if you aren't a douchebag freak.
Anyway, pedantry aside, I think that the concept of "types" is much more realist than "soul mates". Everyone has some sort of concept of a "dream girl/guy" and would be blown away to meet them. Considering the number of people in the world that personality must be present in more than a single person and quite possibly in more than one person you will meet in your life.
Of course, getting with and staying with someone you're ass over elbow for isn't a guaranteed eventuality for everyone so some people wind up single or with people that aren't perfect for them. But still, relationships aren't like jigsaw puzzles. You find someone you like and then work with them to build a stable life. It sounds like a big buzz kill but if you live it it's obviously nice. Even if stability isn't your bag now, even by the time you're just a functioning adult you may not be wanting to just fuck around.
Basically, cosmic mating = nonsense. Odds of someone existing that you could spend your life with = probably close to 100% if you aren't a douchebag freak.
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i do not believe there are such things as 'soulmates'
i do believe there are such things as 'that special someone' or someones.
same as mnx and rayne.
haha. reincarnations. cosmic powers.. xD
i do believe there are such things as 'that special someone' or someones.
same as mnx and rayne.
haha. reincarnations. cosmic powers.. xD
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Soulmates don't exist, partly because people keep redefining what a "soulmate" is.
Is it a person you're destined to be with? Is it the person you would be happiest with? Can you have more than one soulmate? Does your soulmate have to be someone you'd marry? If your sibling was your soulmate, would you fuck your sibling? And so on . . .
If you believe that there's only one person out there for you, then you're deluding yourself so life will seem romantic and eliminating many possibilities for happiness. The cold, hard truth is, no people are "meant" to be together, and even if you love someone more than life itself and promise that you will always be together, there is no guarantee that you will. People can change, so even the happiest couple that gets along better than all others can potentially break up.
Is it a person you're destined to be with? Is it the person you would be happiest with? Can you have more than one soulmate? Does your soulmate have to be someone you'd marry? If your sibling was your soulmate, would you fuck your sibling? And so on . . .
If you believe that there's only one person out there for you, then you're deluding yourself so life will seem romantic and eliminating many possibilities for happiness. The cold, hard truth is, no people are "meant" to be together, and even if you love someone more than life itself and promise that you will always be together, there is no guarantee that you will. People can change, so even the happiest couple that gets along better than all others can potentially break up.
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blind_assassin wrote...
Basically, cosmic mating = nonsense. Odds of someone existing that you could spend your life with = probably close to 100% if you aren't a douchebag freak.You destroyed my only hope :cry:
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swasp1 wrote...
blind_assassin wrote...
Basically, cosmic mating = nonsense. Odds of someone existing that you could spend your life with = probably close to 100% if you aren't a douchebag freak.You destroyed my only hope :cry:
I want to say sorry but the phrase "don't touch me" keeps coming to mind.
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mibuchiha
Fakku Elder
i believe soulmates do exist. or more like, i'm wishing for it to be. because i really want to know how is my soulmate like? and can i tell if i met him/her or not?
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Soul mates in a romantic relationship setting...no. I don't believe there is one out that that is 'just right' for you. I think in a healthy relationship that you both have to balance eachother out, but I don't think there is only one certain person for that.
Out of a romantic setting, I do think there are people that we are connected to throughout our life times (yes I believe in reincarnation). We might not meet them during every lifetime, but I'd like to think there is something to that 'wow, we just met but you seem so famliar to me' type of feeling. Personally I think one of my dogs and I have met eachother in some previous life, and I hope somehow we will keep running into eachother.
Anyway, there are lots of different ways to take that question, to me these two pop into my head first.
Out of a romantic setting, I do think there are people that we are connected to throughout our life times (yes I believe in reincarnation). We might not meet them during every lifetime, but I'd like to think there is something to that 'wow, we just met but you seem so famliar to me' type of feeling. Personally I think one of my dogs and I have met eachother in some previous life, and I hope somehow we will keep running into eachother.
Anyway, there are lots of different ways to take that question, to me these two pop into my head first.
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yes i believe in soul mates, if there is no love then we won't connected to each other from internet,dreams,reality or not we already fight over each other if there is no love,love connect anything love is the strongest material in the universal,other dimension anything
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I personally think it's a fairy tale and should stay at that. Nobody will fit with you perfectly and even if you think they do there's always those little things you will never agree with.
But the little differences are what makes life interesting, right?
But the little differences are what makes life interesting, right?
