Ethan's Love Predicaments & Triumphs

I doubt this tread will last very long. Ohai.

Some of you know me as hopeless. Some of you know me as awesome. But all of you know me as one thing: a virgin. This is my quest to conquer my virginity! (...don't mind the nerdyness in that statement <.<;; ).

Anyway, as I told the CR, over the course of the lat 3 days, I've realized that I have at least 4 girls crushing on me. So I went from a zero, to some guy who could possibly have a fivesome. As fellow virgins, some of you can imagine the awesomeness being held in this. But there's more to it than that. I can't just go have a fivesome for my first time without blowing my load in 10 seconds, as it would probably happen, because believe me, these girls are hot. But if it went by that fast, I probably wouldn't even get to take their clothes off. And that's IF they decide to do it, which they most certainly will not.

So I decided to take my time, and what better way to start than with only one girl? After all, I'm probably spending the whole day with one of them tommorow. Now, I don't know about you, but I don't plan on getting her in bed on Day 1, or maybe even Month 1 for that matter. I plan on taking my time with this, sex is better when there's a strong bond between you and her.

Another problem though: She's dated one of my friends. For almost half a year. They broke up around 2-3 months ago, but she did tell me that she had sex with him. I don't know about you, but that's something I didn't want to know. So, I guess I'll tell you all how itgos tommorrow.

Also: This is not a quest for sex, it's a journey for love. The second paragraph is just a thought I had, as I would definitely not do that to someone I love.

EDIT: I just got rejected over MSN basically, she doesn't want to urt her ex's feelings by getting together with his friend (me). So now I get to wait upwards of 2 weeks for her to make up her mind. Fun stuff.

Fun, if you want to get her specifically you have to increase the strength of your bond with her over this time. If she's seriously considering it then you'll be on her mind rather often and that gives you the opportunity to let your best qualities shine on her.

Anyways good luck on finding love, if you ever need help I am the VUVC councelor for a reason :P. Also don't just have sex to lose your virginity, cause it's so much better when you love the person you have sex with.

Anyway, today was pretty fun, hung out with her for a few hours, got a few hugs, found out her little brother's crazy. Asked her about what we're goig to do,nd she said that she wants to take more time thinking about it. Nevertheless, it was a great day.

But now, my friend's bitching at me about how sad it is to go after his ex. <.<;

I'm not trying to rain on your parade or anything but, while giving her time to figure things out is the right thing to do, don't let her drag it on. Giver her some time but when you feel like you've waited long enough be sure to tell her that. I've experienced a similar situation and I tended to be more concerned about her then my own feelings, in the end she dragged it out as long as she could which ended in a rejection. Afterwards I was rather mad at myself for not taking my own feelings in account, as the wait for her answer had been tearing me up. You can imagine how I felt when I get her answer.

Anyway I'm not trying to say she's going to reject you but please when you feel like you've given her enough time, be sure to let her know and take your stand. Don't neglect the safety of your own feelings like I did.

Hmm, thanks for that. That would be something I'd end up doing... xD
At least we're alike. :P
I don't plan on giving her more than a few weeks. Does that seem like a good amount of time?

Hmm kinda depends, how often do you see her? I shouldn't give her more then 2-3 weeks tops, if she can't figure out how she feels for you by then, then it's start worrying about whether she's yanking your chain. It may sounds a little inconsiderate of me but honestly she should be able to at least tell you something more by then if she loves you, otherwise she needs to ask herself if it's really love she's feeling.

Well, I can only see her on weekends, but we chat on MSN basically everyday, does that count? xD
Yeah, 2-3 weeks sounds good for me.

Nah I wouldn't count MSN, I wouldn't personally bring up such delicate matters on an web messenger anyway, doing those things personal tends to show your serious but that's just me.

I wish you the best of luck though, where I had misfortune you may succeed. Lol.

Ahaha, yeah, but I don't really tend to be serious in the slightest over MSN, let alone question our relationship.
I think I may have hugged her a few too many times though... <.<;

Oh and as it turns out, it seems like she's avoiding me too. <.<
Great job I did there...

Did you do something in particular? Because it didn't sound like you were trying to upset her or anything.

What happened to the other girls...?

That's quite a Quest you got there. You can try to create your very own Harem. And like what Aki-chan said, what about the other 3?

Seems like a pretty complicated situation. @_@

How are you doing right now?

Err, I don't know about, but trying to get 4 girls at once is kinda tough for a guy who's never had a girlfriend before, and I don't wanna ruin my first relationship. So the other 3 are casual friends now.



Err, she seems angry at me for some reason... <.<;
I don't know, maybe it's the fact that I wore track pants and had a boner almost half the time I was there. Maybe she knew it was rubbing against her. <.<

Not to self/others: Don't wear track pants?

Don't rub your boner against girls, silly. XD They can't ever like things like that.

No, she sat on my lap, and... yeah. xD

Then don't move. XD If she does notice tell her you can't help it, because she's so beautiful, or something like that. At least you can make it less awkward that way. =P

Nonetheless I wouldn't call that a reason to ignore someone, after all how are you going to learn from your mistakes if she doesn't want to tell you why she's angry.