Waar wrote...
well it's not really your place to judge me, but the way I live and the friends I have... I would be outcast or looked down upon if I were to let my secret out. I made a post a while back about my secret life, ill see if i can find it to explain better.
My Secret Life this is how some of us live, hope you can respect that, it's our choice.
sorry if it seems like i was judging you waar, i didnt intend to... i was just making a reccomendation. if the secret is hentai then i completely relate, sexual preferences are majorily kept secret due to the nature of them and save for a couple close relations nobody else needs to know. i was actually making the suggestion because i thought your problem was with disclosing your hobby of anime, but if its hentai then who couldnt relate?
and quiet dalif! i deny my contradiction. im proud of my hobbies, as well as the memorabilia and knowledge ive collected on them... including hentai, but it just isnt socially accepted in most societies. if a stranger asked me out right about the subject i probably would deny my affiliation with it.... for the sake of my reputation, yes. its a tough world kiddies, if you arent what people think you are your something they dont understand. which pretty much makes you an alien.