(i am about to get/sound really negative here, so you have been warned) my mom had my sister when i was 13, and i thought i was ready for it. but i wasn't. i was DEAD wrong about being ready for a sister. i helped so much in the beginning, but later on i felt so shackled and chained. i loved her then, and i haven't stopped, but i was just not ready at that age for a sis. it showed me to wait until i was good and ready for a child.
why the kids father was trying to make the kid sound like a hero is beyond me. the world is full of people, and we dont need anymore. these two should have been sterilized. im sorry to say that, and sound like a dick, and be so negative, but your never ready for a kid, especially your first one. so why these two thought that this was a good idea, or kept it, is beyond me. when he turns old enough he is probably gonna leave, and the baby will be raised in a single-parent home. really its the "grandparents'" fault here. man this is just sad. *sigh*