Gentle or Rough?

A simple question really. Do you like it gentle or rough?
Now what is "it"? Everything you can think of doing with your lover.

From kissing, cuddling, hugging, or sex, do you like it when (s)he does it gently or rough?

I personally like everything slow and gentle. You ever been bear hugged by a strong person? I know Lemon can bear hug you into next week. I didn't like it. Too tight.

And to just rapidly kiss over and over again like your in a hurry, where's the passion in that? To me it's more like being kissed by a family member rather than your possible soulmate. And though we don't French kiss often, when we do it is also slow and gentle. Only time I kiss her and it isn't gentle is if it's in the heat of passion, and even then I ease up in a few seconds.

And as for sex. I just don't like it fast and rough because it hurts more and doesn't last me nearly as long.

Kinda of a loaded question. I want to fuck brains to mush, but Ricard Roundtree is too.... tall and buff for most people. So i do it gentle until i need to pound it out. On me i need her to just go nuts. On my other side of my bisexual nature... i still an anal virgin so i just go nuts on him when i need to.

A little of both, really, but I definitely prefer being gentle. I've always been an extremely affectionate guy and I'd much rather take our time when it comes to those things, but there's always times where you get caught up in the moment and just sorta let your instincts take over for a while and that's always fun.

Though I do sometimes like to wrestle a little and I guess that would be considered "rough cuddling", but I'm not a fan of bear hugs.



Not everything has to be so passionate when it comes to relationships though. Sometimes it's fun to just be sorta cute and silly and I think the "rapid kissing" falls under that. I'm quite guilty of just rapidly planting small kisses all over a girl's face and they never seemed bothered by it.

I prefer a little more roughhousing while my bf likes to be more gentle, but depending on how we feel that day will determine what we end up choosing (might have a nice mix of both). I don't like anything too hardcore (no chains, whips, bruises, choking) just some playful butt slaps, some pulling of the hair, nipping and some scratching, submissive/dominant role-play, etc.

Generally I like gentler sex, but I like to mix in some rougher stuff from time to time. Normally it just involves nipping at each-other/some soft slapping. And on the off occasion we have handcuffed one-another. But nothing to rough, I may be a slight masochist but I don't really like the idea of getting off on pain.

Depends on the guy. I'm okay with bear hugs if they don't make it impossible for me to breathe. Gentle hugs and cuddling gives me bubbles but rough kissing turns me on. While Gentle kisses gives me a fuzzy warm feeling. I like foreplay rough and well I do blowjob according to how the guy likes it.

Really depends on a romantic night with someone nice to go slow and gentle and just enjoy the moment. Other nights you are ripping off each other clothes and want it rough and wild. Usually I like it to start nice and gentle then get rough as we progress.

This just on the other side of things

Ive never had sex but i guess gentler will be a lot better, cause gentler sounds to be more cute. but idk, never tried

Like most people have said - it really depends. Most of the time I like it rough, but if I'm not in the mood I want them to be gentle for the buildup.

ummmm I guess I like it rough but is the sense of roughhouseing and wrestling sort. Tho I have a thing for well being beat by woman abit.. hard to explian. But mostly I'm gentle due to my partner i guess, xD I get scared to hurt them.

Snuggle me then spank me.

I like both.

^ I love both. It depends on the mood at the time though. Most days starting out gentle and getting rougher is a great turn on, but never pain stuff.
Rough kissing can be good, specially during sex. Silly kissing is good too. Like someone already said, not everything needs to be passionate

It'd depend on my mood, but I would wanna start slow before getting rougher.

I'm a little odd... I'm somewhat Masochistic so i don't mind the thought of it being rough... but I'd prefer to be gentle to the other person xD although my imagination can go wild depending on the situation...

I like a healthy mix of both. Kissing, cuddling, hugging, sometimes I do like these things to be very soft and gentle and reassuring.


In the heat of passion, however, I also sometimes like to let the passion consume me and the other person and just... go at it.

It all depends on the situation, but I really, really do love both.

I like to move with the tide, moving in and out of the coast slowly and calmly; but it's important to know when to rev up the engines and KICK IT TO THE CURB.

Both I do like gentle sex (Vanilla) from time to time but not always . When your primal urge takes control yes it can be rough , It doesnt mean rough sex is hard stuff For exemple : your bf/gf just came back from a trip , you missed him/her and when you see him/her your libido goes straight up and you gets more rougher since you didnt have sex for a while .. Rough sex can mean lots of things it depends on what you consider rough , everyone have their own desire and kinks and we all have a line we do not want to cross.

I can be a passionate man in the bedroom.

i get turned on by my partner being turned on, sooooo your answer is whatever they like.