I'm ok neither way. I'm a bit (low to mid) masochist (getting bitten, slapped, tied and stuff), but then I'm also a way too sugary, so I love it neither way. I'm a way too submissive, too, so at the very end I just end up receiving what my partner wants to give me with love~ ❤. When I'm not receiving I'm always gentle, unless my partner ask me to be a bit rougher (and just a bit)~