ShaggyJebus wrote...
Xil wrote...
You honestly believe it is not possible for two people to freely have sex with others out of their own relationship? Is that really that hard to believe?
Yes. It isn't possible. Not if the couple loves each other and wants to stay together.
People tend to stay in couples. That's two people. You add more people to the party, and problems begin to arise. Usually big problems that cause the relationship to end. It could be the jealously thing ("Do you like him more than me?" "Is he better in bed than me?" "Why do you spend more time with him than me?"), or it could be that one of the people involved does develop feelings for a third party that's gotten involved ("He was just your sex buddy, and now you love him?!), or any sort of problem. The fact is, it doesn't work. Even if a boyfriend allows his girlfriend to have a little extra sex on the side, usually there are conditions attached to it, usually saying that it's a temporary thing, and she will one day only have sex with him. That, or one person doesn't actually care about the other.
Ah-HA! No longer defending.
But that is also assuming they think sex is attached to love.
Sure, maybe if you run off and start fucking anything that'll stick around for 5mins your partner will start to get annoyed.
But if it's controlled with friends, you both are fine with the new addition and so on.. I really think it could work.
If two people really love each other they will support each other with their dreams.
Lovers support each other in Sky diving, a very dangerous act and no one really will think twice about the partner being fine with it. However if the partner is fine with him/her having sex with someone else, it's now suddenly Taboo.
You are not betraying their trust if they do not disagree. And how can you fall in love with this new person if you have already found your true love? If you do fall in love, then the currant partner is not your true love..
Yes, it would take a unique couple for this to work in this society but I still fail to see how it would not work if maintained right.
EDIT:
tsujoi wrote...
....Hey maybe she'll bring home a girl!
lol if that's the case totally go for it King!