[Locked] How do I gain her trust back and make her pain go away? :(

I have no idea why this here. The comments are completely inappropriate, the OP shouldn't be posting here. This is one big thread of shit. If you can't discuss your relationship candidly in person and need fakku to relate to each other, then something is seriously wrong with the both of you.

I have no idea why you'd even post here and expect real answers from the majority. Your wife posts more frequently than you and is more recognized and as such you'll just be treated as an outsider.

Aren't you going to a counselor? Are you just completely ignoring the advice of a professional for fucked up people and white knighters?

This is the most offensive, terrible thing I've ever read. You're the worst person I have ever seen on Fakku and I really something bad happens to you because you deserve nothing less. What the fuck is wrong with you? Just because you're admitting how horrible you are doesn't make you any less horrible. You are the luckiest man ever, to get such a kind, FORGIVING, NAIVE girlfriend. She's only with you still because she's never dated anyone else and doesn't know how fucking amazing she is because the only boyfriend she's ever had has fucking verbally AND EMOTIONALLY abuses her and made her feel insufficient only because he's fucked up in the brain and clearly, the dick. She really could have even SUED you for fucking filming you guys and distributing it without her permission. You're really the worst person. If I ever knew my girlfriend was faking happy and then cried in her sleep for MY SAKE I'd probably be completely wrecked on the inside.

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I think the real issue with your relationship is you're talking to each other through a fucking THREAD on Fakku. I didn't know that your wife was missotakugirl or whatever. The reason why she's with you is because she's clearly retarded considering she's posting for advice and shit ON FAKKU.

Oh god, Ib is invading...

But good point about he could be sued imoloko

I didn't even want this posted in the first place, nor did I know it was until I was told about it. It's too personal for my tastes, and I think it would be good for this thread to be closed. I've already said that to my husband about that when he came home on the day he posted this.







iMoloko, we did actually talk in person about this before, and I told him to just give me time, and I thought that was that. I never knew that it would be brought back up again after a few months. And really, you don't have to be so rude. I don't believe I've done anything to be called that or have said anything bad toward you, even if I've personally disagreed with some of the things you've wrote in your posts before. Sorry if you don't particularly like me or anything because of the three questions I've asked before regarding my relationship, but really, there's no need to be so nasty. I believe if you've got nothing nice to say toward someone, you shouldn't say anything, which is partly why I don't care much for this thread... There's way too much going on and while there appears to be a lot of people sticking up for me, I don't quite enjoy all of the harsh words being slung around.

FIRST: I'm a long time lurker here and made a new account specifically to respond to this thread. Nice to meetcha all (well, most of you, anyways. I'm prolly gonna get a few haters for what I'm about to say)


Now, I've read through all of the comments and everything, and I have to say this: iMoloko - you're being a bitch. It was stated that the girl was abused in the past by her dad, and like HappyDia01 said, she may have subconsciously tried to find someone like her dad to try to repair the relationship. Allllsssssooo, I decided to look into her posts, and really, she seems like a sweet girl and it's not like other people haven't posted for help or advice in relationships on here, so why the fuck are you singling her out on it? It doesn't make what her husband has been doin' to her anymore right because of that.

1)Have you ever bothered to read the posts despite your high and mighty attitude? Because if you did most of your questions were already answered.

2) You do realize this is the Love, Romance and Relationships Forum where we actually talk about things pertaining to *surprise* Love, Romance and Relationships?

3) You do realize that as you talk shit about this community, calling it fucked up that you yourself are a part of that fucked up community and are posting on the boards? Do you realize what an insulting shot you fired at all of us?

Some other things I want to say - this time directed at crazymissotaku (AKA the wifey in this situation):

1. Don't let this guy treat you like dirt anymore. You don't need it. You better stick to your guns and go through with leaving him if he screws up again.

2. You don't need to be embarrassed over this, it's not your fault.

3. *looks at your avi* If that's you in there, then.... I think you're effin' hot. Do you even know how many guys would kill to have a girl like you and would treat you so much better? Just sayin'...


I'm done. :D

There are really a lot of very kind people here, and in a way, I'm glad that there are people here that are willing to answer seriously. I've noticed that when I posted my questions before, and I am so grateful and amazed with how helpful everyone was and how insightful and honest the answers I received were. So while some of you may think it's a waste of time asking for advice on here, I have to respectfully disagree. Please don't bash anyone for asking questions. More than likely, they just could need a little help going in the right direction... I don't think that's so bad.






Welcome to the forum, and thank you, for sticking up for me, too. :) It's great to know that there are people who are willing to do that for others. But now I can't help but feel a little sorry for iMoloko at the same time. I don't think she's a.... b-word. I don't particularly like what she said, either, but I don't think there's any need to be calling people names.


Anyways, thank you so much for the advice you have given me, and for the compliment, too. ^^; Lols. It's very kind of you.

Aww, well aren't you just sweet as pie? You seem like a cool girl. I'd like to talk to you some more sometime. I mean this in a friendly way, btw, I ain't a home wrecker. *smiles*

Wow... That was something...
While I was reading your story, there was 2 things in my head:
What's wrong with you?
and
What's wrong with her?

Starting with your case... Well, nothing much to say. First step is the admit your wrongs, but I'm not sure you would change. Otherwise, it can be a miracle. I don't think you actually think what you doing is THAT wrong.

Her. Your wife. Is either she is silly and not leaving you (because she obviously deserve better) OR she is blinded by love OR just another mystery of life.

And I thought I was very tolerant with my exs.
If I get cheat on once, is done. I know, because it happened. And I was crazy about him. It hurted like fucked lol

I srsly can't imaging what she's going through... Guys like this (especially when they NEVER learn), don't deserve any respect.

Posting and asking for advice on Fakku is a horrible idea. Listen to your marriage counselor and seek out a psychiatrist.

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