xkingdgx wrote...
Ironically enough I feel like when I do have sex I tend
to masturbate more often, which seems backwards...
It certainly seems counterintuitive, but your experience is not unusual.
In fact, a man with a satisfying sex life masturbates more frequently
than a lonely man with no sex life. That's because the sexually-active
man is often thinking about the hot sex he just had, or will soon have
again, so his libido is always on "low simmer" and ready to boil over,
which means the slightest titillation is likely to produce an irresistible
urge to fap.
I can vouch for this based on my own experience. During one seven-
year period, I had regular sex with two women. In between the trysts,
I also enjoyed regular phone sex with one of the women (who was a
compulsive masturbator). And yet, I did a
lot of jerking off on the side.
It didn't take much to trigger the urge. My sap never stopped flowing,
simply because I was having so much fun with two different women.