I hate college

So lately I have been busy with tons of work and I could not get all my school work done. So I decided I would not go to that class since I think it's worse to show up to class without getting my work done.

Anyways my friend in that class called me up and asked me where I was and I told him I was sick with a stomach ache from eating bad food. In the background I could hear people laughing and that's when I realized they put me on speaker phone.

I honestly don't blame my friend because the teacher probably forced him to do it but if the teacher asked, "who has this guy's phone number?" and he said "I do!" I'd be pissed.

Now I look like a douchebag and I have lost all the urge to ever go to class again because I hate the idea of people laughing at me behind my back. I know it's my fault because I could not finish all my work because I work a part time job to pay for school but to me this was like a big a big middle finger in the face. I hate school and they are all assholes.

so I'm trying to decide if I should just quit school altogether. when I used to work as a security guard I was did not have to talk to people, I had no responsibilities, And I was making about 15 bucks an hour doing nothing. Sure I had no creative fufillment but it was a price to pay for the other luxuries. Now I'm in debt trying to get some crappy degree where I will eventually make a lot more than I would ever make at a security job but I will always have to work hard for the rest of my life and more than likely always feel like garbage.

I wish in my family people didn't hate on non-college jobs. I wish they realized I am a failure and they should never have forced me to go to college. It sucks that i realized I could easily work 8 to 10 hours a day, go home and play xbox, and then repeat that for the rest of my life with out a complaint. But now I have don't even have that option because I have student loans to pay off and now I have to go to school every day and have people criticize my work and treat me like garbage.

So yeah, it was a bad morning. I wish I did not answer my phone.

Any advice or some sort of encouraging words?

Well if you lack motivation it'll influence your studies as in getting bad grades, so that also surely will demotivate you even further. In my honest opinion if you liked/like the idea of your security guard job and you feel fulfilled doing it and living a simple lifestyle, which no one should criticize you on since it's your life, then I think you should consider returning to it. I find it depressing that your family is hell bent on you getting a college degree, whilst they should be supporting you in whatever career choice you would enjoy and like to choose. Degrees and all that crap don't mean a damn thing when you hate the job your doing, yes the pay will be a little higher but if you hate doing your job you'll most likely quit it sooner or later or just get fired because your work isn't good (due to no motivation).

I don't plan doing college again (it's called something else here), I attended a full year course, passed but then decided to do something else. The job I'm currently aiming for, and doing intern work at, pleases me and I feel great doing it. All that matters for me is making a decent living doing the job I enjoy.

But this is your decision after all.

Things'll get better.

In this day ad age, college isn't a option for some. I could have stayed at home, been a daily fakkuer etc, but no, I go to college. I hate Art right ow (loved it until I started college, we only WRITE!) but I put up with it and 4 weeks into Art we have an exam coming up in 3 weeks!

I just ahve to stick with it. I have some hard subjects which I need to do homework for, and I don't always do my homework but I have to go. I need the education, I want a good job and without college degrees and such you won't get a very good job without them.

Do you WANT to work in McDonalds? Do you WANT to be slave driven by super store owners? I don't and manybe you don't.

Don't quit cos' you hate your collage, just try hard and stick with it. You'll have good and bad days. I've had my bad days where I just wanna run away but I stick with my regime and go to collage.

It's hard for everyone but we all have to go through this shit. There will always be someone laughing behind your back and you'll laugh at someone behind their back, it's how everyone rolls. (or something like that)

Quit complaining, life isn't always peaches and cream, it's got some shit stirred in there too. Take it like a man and suck it up, just go to collage!

And anyway if you think your life'll be set with working without a collage degree, you're wrong. You'll have regrets because we all do.

This comes from a collage girl who has a lot of rage >:(

Then again, it's your choice.

play it off as funny, you wont look dumb and should save face. The teacher will most likely joke about it but then if he misses a day you cal call him in class or something similar.

good advice.

no but seriously thanks for the encouragement, it's good to here it from people every now and then. I pretty much live by myself without any real friends or family so it's really easy for me to feel down and out because I don't have anybody to communicate with.

As weird as it sounds, thank god for this hentai site.

LOL YOU'RE GONNA DROP OUT OF SCHOOL BECAUSE OF THAT?

STOP BEING A LITTLE BITCH, THATS MY ADVICE

Since I felt like reading this now... but you're gonna puss out of college altogether just because some people were laughing at you behind your back or were acting like a bunch of assholes? Wow man grow a pair of ballz because once you get done with college it's going to get a lot harder because then you gotta actually compete with everyone else out there for a job and have to deal with bills, taxes, insurance, etc. I'm having a tough time with college but because I actually have things to look forward to in my future I ain't gonna be giving up so damn easy like you're thinking about doing.

In all honesty, so do I. I feel like I'm paying exorbitant amounts to daydream.

GO TO A CHEAP PUBLIC SCHOOL THEN, RICH BITCH

I'd say suck it up, I mean you don't wanna end up work some meaninglessly empty job at a fast food restaurant, or labor work...

Sucking it up is hard but, hey persistence and patience pays off in the end.

Yeah. I'd go with Waar's advice. Had this happen before, Waar?

I'm rather surprised that people were laughing at you. It's fucking college, your classmates aren't in high school anymore. First off, even if he's on speaker, you told him you got food poisoning and from your post, that's all you said. I really see no reason for them to be laughing. Based on that, you should be fine. Even so, you're in college, if they laugh at you, just pay no mind. Believe me, now since you're at this level, you got more to worry about than them laughing at you. And they'll most likely forget about it in about a week.

hrmm, no but my mind goes into immediate damage control when something bad happens to me in public. It's my defense mechanism and it's managed to help me save face on more than one occasion.

you should just suck it up.

Money is good. Education = moar money. I hate college to death as well, half my professors need to die a painful death by my hand, but that's just how life is. Greed is fucking good.

If your trubbled at any point, just say to yourself "im lucky to even have gotten into colledge" and youll find it to be better. Plus, happyness and success awaits when your done. Just party and work all you can while it still means somthing.

I agree.

KILL YOURSELF

I wouldn't drop out of it for a reason like that.

University's especially will basically try to kill off freshman to see who pusses out and who really wants the fucking degree and is willing to slave over shit in order to get it.

It sucks, but that's how it is.

I'd agree with Waar, just play it off. There's always going to be one teacher who pisses you off or that you can't stand. There's also going to be a teacher who sucks at their job too, but it's one of those things where you just have to suck it up and accommodate to what they want or expect. You can't learn anything if you don't try to accommodate.

First of all what type of career are you looking into going after college. If all your looking for is to just get that paper your gonna have a long road ahead of you. People say you find out what you gonna do by going to college, but from what I heard that's bullshit. You should have a goal in mind before hand. I've had some bullshit teachers too, but I didn't let it get to me. Having a goal in mind will help you push forward.

Life's hard. But you have to live with it if you want to have anything good in life.