I'd Be Going to Hell....

You shouldn't worry about something like that, the world wasn't made to be perfect, and neither were we meant to be perfect, if you like/are attracted to her, then its normal. I doubt you would gain entree to heck(You know what I mean) because of that..

So...technically she SHOULD be able to say something right?

Anyways, I'd say you're fine. Maybe ask her out or something. Hang around her a little, she might be a nice person too.

If this is the girl you're talking about then you'll really are going to hell. ^^

If ur going cus of that ima be seeing u there cus that right there is just normal and i want to hear wat kind of cute sound that girl muttered :3

I think it's normal to you to treat her like normal person. . .

i say go for it.She may have fellings for you since she tried to talk to you.

If you treat her as any other human being then it's completely normal, and if you like here go for it bro.

If her disability is the only thing that turns you on about her or is the major factor, I say don't go for it.

That's all? I thought you did something really bad towards her. That won't win you a ticket to hell.

I don't see anything wrong in finding certain charm in a woman even if she is disabled.

This is probably hopeless, but I'll try anyway.

I don't see how that is blatantly wrong. If coveting the body of the opposite sex is wrong by looking at it, then holy shit.

Ok, so a normal woman could say something but the mute one will be helpless and defenseless, therefore it's wrong. I don't know about the women you've been around, or the the kind of guys you've seen gawking at other women, or maybe you're speaking from experience, but when guys stare they're usually quiet and women usually don't do shit. Now, because the guy's quiet, she might as well be deaf because she won't fucking hear him look at her. Because a lot of women won't really say anything, she might as well be mute. But, what could she possibly do to signal to the guy to fuck off? She could always give him that "look." She could also use that well known sign most if not all of us know. Since she her hands speak for her, she could always say the thing I endorse the fuck out of:

But no, she's a defenseless creature who can't defend against a person just looking at her because she can't speak.

Even if they aren't oblivious, so? So she knows I'm looking at her ass? It's not "wrong" to be selfish in that situation, bro.


Uh-huh, so you didn't mean eye candy in the sense that you look at her but in the sense that you look at her(every day).
Doesn't make a difference if he stares at her ass everyday; what I said earlier still applies.
Also, thinking she has a beautiful ass(for the sake of argument I'll use her ass) and looking at it because it's so marvelous is a lack of respect for that woman? Personally, I think it's a great compliment.

@Krystel - Wow. He'll turn into stone!

Anyway, it depends on u, dude. If you don't like that disabled girl then, treat her like a normal one. But if your feelings are too strong that you even dream of her, it's ok that you go for it. My. Just remembered Hatsu Inu Doujin. ^^

Rbz you obviously haven't spent anytime around a deaf/mute. There are more then just physical handicaps, there are mental and self-esteem ones to. Plus, gawking isn't a compliment. You can give someone a compliment, saying something to someone is a compliment, but just looking at them and checking them out is definetly not a compliment. Where the hell do you live that can you just look a girl over and they're flattered for being checked out, cause i'm moving there.

Plus why are are you arguing points I didn't make? When did I say coveting the oppisite sex's body is wrong?


And at the end you say it still applies even if he isn't looking at her everyday? That my friend is my point, thats when it applies is when she isn't eye candy where he is checking her out everyday. That was the point of my post, you say it like a counter arguement but you are actually just proving my point. Thats the ONLY time it applies.

And this:

Classy dude... my favorite part...
Being deaf/mute isn't the same, because they are a bit paranoid, and since they are already dealing with self-esteem/confidence and paranoia, they definetly ain't gonna be taking your eyes undressing them as a compliment.

it is, because she isn't like other girls where they can avoid and keep track of situations. To her, the only time she catches you is when she SEES you. Other women can better sense your presence, so they know your checking them out. She is going to be afraid of you being behind her alot, and you don't want her to always be looking over her should right Rbz?

Even if she does tell a co-worker that'd be like-minded with you to fuck off, the guys you have to tell to fuck off are the ones that usually don't, and continue the harassment. And so my opinion is just don't be an ass, and treat this girl with a little more respect.

How would you know, maybe I was too busy staring at her ass.


She's deaf/mute sir, not retarded. Also, what does self-esteem have to do with anything here. Dude never mentioned her character or how she acts. How much can you pull out of your ass in one post?


I did say personally. I think they're pretty. It's a compliment.


Why do you keep tap dancing around the points I make?

Also, you missed a part of the sentence where it said "by looking at it."



Even if he IS looking everyday(not isn't), it still applies that she's not just some helpless little retard, who is under attack by another man's eyes and can't do anything about it. Middle finger motherfucker, middle finger. She could just show it to him every fucking day if she really cared about him looking at her all the time.



Great fucking job generalizing every single death/mute woman on the planet. How would you know she's paranoid, or has self-esteem issues? How the fuck do you know she doesn't want men to think she's attractive?


The only time any woman can catch a guy staring at them is when she SEES them. But hey, the non-disabled women know when I'm checking them out because they can sense my presence and hear when I'm looking at them.


Making bullshit assumptions again, eh razama?


Hold on there bra. Looking at a woman is harassment?


No, what you want is for me to treat her like a fucking cripple and not a woman. Stop making shit up and making it seem as if she's some helpless shy little girl who can't handle the look of another man who thinks that she is an attractive woman and not just some helpless disabled bitch. Handicapped people probably hate your ass for treating them all "special" and shit.

Guys... Don't need to take it this far... We all have our own opinion which makes us different. We all are Unique in our own way. We all have our own views on certain issues, but no need for it to get out of hand...

Don't go to SD, they take their arguments very far. Leave this one alone. It's very non hateful hippy lovey dovey in case you couldn't tell. Everything's cool.

you should learn to sign asap or can she deal with lips/some hearing?

either way you need to ask her out asap.

@Rbz - I'm not saying she' retard, but I've HAVE spent time around deaf people - It's part of my job to assist with people of all types of handicaps. And the sad truth is alot of them have self-esteem issues. Alot of deaf people I notice are a bit more wary, I don't really know why - maybe it's just coiencedence that those are the only ones I come in contact with. It isn't the rule, there are exceptions, but it is that way for the most part.

You accuse me of pulling things outta ass and you claim I'm dancing around your argument, but I feel like your doing the same. So at this point I'll just agree to disagree with you, cause for all we know by this point GinIchimaru_09 and this girl are smoking a cigarette in bed together.

No, actually I addressed everything that you said which was pertinent to the argument. The rest was for teh lulz.

If they're in bed right now, then he obviously did the right thing.