masochism: good or bad?

Hmmm... only if it not too hurting me...

I like bondage girl though :D

Capital no. I love my girlfriend so much, yes, but to hurt her and inflict her unnecessary pain... I'd rather die. Even if it's her will, her pleasure, and all of that, if there's one thing I don't want my girlfriend to feel, it's pain. And sadness.

If such was the case, I'll do everything I can to make her turn from that way. If I fail, then I don't know what to do. Leave her, and somebody else will hurt her, out of her own will. Stay with her, and I'm a lover who cannot by all means hurt her.
Thanks God this isn't happening in my life.

What in world do you guys consider "unecessary pain?"

You move into guro and actually drawing blood beyond a mere couple of drops, that's the limit no matter what, and a psychologist/therapist is called in.

It also good if she doesnt wear the standard leather with metal stuff outfit....its soooo not hot for me.

errr pain is temporary,pleasure is forever?lol

I've never known anyone who practices masochism. Nor have I ever thought of it myself. Personally I don't find it alluring or arousing in anyway. I have nothing against anyone who does practice masochism, if they enjoy, then eh, have at it. I do however, find something at the very least ODD in the extreme sort of masochism such as self mutilation or physical injury that goes too far. Also, leather straps just really turn me off.

Heh... But what about a girl naked in your bed, cuffed/tied with ropes, and some whips, candles and BDSM tools on the chair with her asking you to,
"hurt me, call me *her choice*, make me your slut through pain!" and shit like that?

Meh who could turn down an offer like that.Wouldnt hurt her though lol