Need some advice.

QFT

Move on playa.

Yeah long distance things never work out, girls are almost never looking for something like that. Also since she cheated once she is likely to do it again, even if she knows its wrong. I'd say save yourself the trouble and move on.

It is true that for most people long distance won't work out, but despite the horrible odds, I do not think you should give up.
Give it a try, that way you will never think back and say "what if".

I think that assumption is wrong... people CAN change, you know.

Some people never do, however...

Lol origami would be nice.Maybe fold one infront of her or something.Like a paper rose out of a napkin or something.

either that or any soft toy would do.

meh in most cases you know its not gonna work out,but you do it anyway.Those kind of situation where logic does not work for you.

Well I got her a necklace and wrote her a letter then I folded the letter into a box and wrote inside the box Open slowly. I tried hope its decent enough

I am sure she will love it :)
I assume you have already sent the package, but if you haven't, then you should post some pictures so we can see what you ended up doing

Now that we've got the present out of the way, why not move on to getting closer to her? It takes more than a card to win her heart.

Yea sure. But she is still so hung over him. Hmmm should I post some of the things she said?

Unless you have schizophrenia. Then the other person(s) are there too.

I'm not judging you, but I feel all wrong about this one. People with emotional baggage and issues with commitment, whether they cheated first or second, are hard to deal with and often selfish. This makes it even harder because she's long distance.

There are nice people all around you who don't have this type of baggage. Are you sure you want to deal with it?

Yea I'm sure. Nice my ass. Most black people down here treat me like shit. And the ones down here most of them are loud,rude, and full of themselves. Plus I'm shy so yea >.>

How'd you meet her? Did you know her from school or something? Can't you get someone long distance who doesn't have baggage, at least?

Hokuto, wanted to say something back then but well ill say it now.

I dont think this woman is ready for you at the moment. Why dont you give her time to move on first. I mean, maybe you should think about it too, do you really care about this woman or you just care more about what you want now.

Rushing this, can lead to either her getting hurt more or her making decisions shes not sure of or made while in a state of confusion or you getting hurt or just the both of you.

Lol getting hurt is part of life,just let him do what he wants.

Hmm perhaps your right...she is at her breaking point. Been getting sick alot.

Don't buy her anything. Tell her the story of how you feel about her. Let her know that you care about her. It doesn't matter what someone has done in the past because everyone grows and changes.... If everyone were to hold each other accountable for all the stupid or mean things they've done in their lifetimes.... you get the picture..

True Choice = being totally okay with your choice, regardless of the outcome or how other will react to it.