[Question] What do guys want in a girl?

10 things I like in girl:
Straightforward
Kind
Respectful
cute
Knows how to have fun
Considerate
Helpful
Cheerful
Great cook
and last of course is SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T FEAR ME :twisted:

It's not as if i want my girl to be able to eat 100 hot dogs and 50 tacos on a daily basis. No. But at least i want my girl to be able to eat as much as i do in special occasions like, say, wedding buffet.

About heart troubles and all that, did i mentioned "healthy" in the criteria? No.

And i see no "contradiction" aside from the aforementioned one. Care to explain?

not much for me id say i go with the one i like thats all

Don't get offended, I just meant when you say 'heavy eater' it makes it sound like you want your girl to be able to pig out, and I just mention it's hard for a girl to pig out and still have an awesome body.
Why wouldn't you want a girl healthy btw?

It's not that i don't want my girl to be healthy, it's just that health is never in my list of the things i want from a girl.

Healthy or unhealthy, i don't care too much.

Hell, if my girl's unhealthy that could be a motivation for me.(I am currently pursuing a degree in pharmacy).

I'm thinking that's going to be very difficult for you to find XD


What the hell is with that last one lmfao!!


Ehh? You don't want to meet your perfect chica and then a year later have her die on you. I guess it would be hard to forsee that though without knowing more medical background on someone. I'd at least like someone who tries though.

I'm curious what the certain problem the chick you found has? (if it's a touchy area, no offense)

When I mean someone who doesn't fear me is that people see me as a trouble maker this is what people see in me:
Gangster(I was in a gang 4 years ago)
That I'm in a mafia(not true)
Violent(not true)
Because of this people back away from me also because of my:
eyes(I always look mad but I am not)
Big(since I lifted weights)
Clothes(all black)
Quiet(just shy and kinda antisocial)
So you see that's the problem :(

....You're not...this guy, are ya?

You guessed it right!
Except the eyes

Oh but I have long hair but I do slick it back

o_o Okay, I could see where that would be a problem. Although some of those I'd consider a turn on. The eye thing, ah, but I know it's cause I've been reading so much manga where the guys have mean looking eyes but ommgggg they are so nice and defend their woman, kyaa~~ now I want to go read some.



LMFAO!!!! If I had a rep point to give you I would, thats the hardest I've laughed all day.

You think I'm kidding.

Body: Slim/average (body matches bust)
Bust: Flat, "budding" or reasonably large
Eyes: Color doesn't matter but glasses ARE mandatory. "Fake glasses" are fine. The appearance is all that matters.
Hair: {referably brown or black
Personality: Quiet (not shy), well mannered, introverted, bibliophile. Warm and caring personality that surfaces at the right times. Such as clinging to my arm when we walk in public.

Also has to be forgiving of my constant screw ups.

What do I want? I think I've answered this in another thread somewhere...

What I want in a girl: (I think I'm fairly reasonable.)
Red hair (Not a must, but makes it soooooo much better.)
A nice body, preferably smaller (I'm not asking for much, I just want to be able to have fun with her.)
Small to medium sized breasts
Quiet
A personality (Preferably with a good sense of humor.)

Too much? I think it's fair...

And Ayase, It's a very personal thing with mnx and his girl, a little sad, and a little funny. (Don't hate me mnx!)

Also, Fpod, where the hell have you been! I haven't seen you in the RS in a month...

THIS.

I would like to also add that I would like to know her real personality straight out. You know how the first 6 months or so is the trial period, until they get comfortable, then they show their true colors, (you fucking crazy bitches!)

Also, really would like a girl that wouldn't do this:

Guy: Wanna go to that New Year's party?
Girl: No, I don't really want to go.

*several hours pass, guy looks bored*

Girl: Oh, honey, we can go if you really want to.

--End Scene--

I know what this means, this means you'll only let me go because I look like I want to go. But instead of trying to have a good time for me, you're just gonna be mad all through out party. You're not gonna attempt to pretend to look happy. Oh, you'll say,"No, honey, I'm having a good time", only I can tell you're lying because you haven't separated from me at all. What you say and what you do at the party conflict with each other, yet what you do is consciously done to get my attention. You contradict yourself because you think,"I shouldn't have to tell you how I feel, you should figure it out", which I in fact, can tell how you feel. What I can't figure out is, if all you're gonna do is bring bad vibes, WHY DID YOU COME WITH ME!

Ah~ that would cause definate hurdles. It's great you have her though, hopefully things don't turn out that bad as you think with your families.


LMFAO!!



LoL I do that weekly probably (with friends/family), but not for that reason. It's more like I'll think I don't want to go but after mulling over it for an hour I'll be like yaknow actually, that sounds pretty good, lets do it. It takes me time to think weigh the pro's and con's and sometimes things will pop in my head between that time like 'oh yeah! I can do this then while I'm there too'.

Why can't the guy just go to the party, and the girl can do her own thing at home?

*prepares to get bashed by all females present*

Why would you get bashed? =p
If you have total confidence in your guy then it'd be better than doing something you don't want to do too. There's often things I want to do or go to that no one else does, so I go it alone. It should be able to be the same in or out of a relationship. Trust is the big key though, lotsa women don't like it because they feel threatened.

I've had plenty of girls yell at me, saying things like, "No, the couple's supposed to do stuff together!" and "A guy shouldn't want to leave his girlfriend alone!" and other nonsense that only makes sense if you don't think about it. That's what I said that I was prepared to get bashed.

Really, I don't understand the whole wanting to be together all the time thing. When you spend all your time with a person, and do everything together, you just get bored of each other sooner. And you can't bring up new subjects because your partner already knows everything because you spend all your time together!

Maybe I'm just bitter . . . The worst part of a relationship is when both parties have absolutely nothing new to say to one another.