Request for help from the Fakku Family (Kindda long)

Hah, I think that any girl interested in Macho dumbasses who fight for no reason isn't my kind of girl anyway.

I do have a temper but, any time it comes it it's fully justified. I have a code of rules and ethics I follow and expect people to follow as well (simple things like not lying, cheating,etc etc) just basic "good" things we teach kids.

I fight with words. If fists are needed, I'd prefer someone else to do the punching.

Just my overall personality and physique are better suited for fighting. I try words but, I believe words tend to fail so I resort to fists. For me its easier to shut up some random ass-hat by knocking them out or breaking a jaw. Can't talk shit if you can't talk eh?

It all depends on the situation, I think. If some guy is coming at me in a bar holding a chair, I'm going to hit him before he hits me. And if someone is talking shit to my face and actually asking for a fight, then I may oblige. But otherwise, imbeciles should be ignored. ^_~

In other news, this English comedy is awesome. "I've been working on a bit of medieval porn music."

Ignorance and stupidity should be painful. I agree that certain situations call for diplomacy but, I don't hesitate about using violence. This day in age is too sensitive and such for me. It used to be if you talked shit then you better be able to back it up. Cops didn't care if two guys beat the living hell out of one another as long as they didn't kill them. Now if I so much as shove a guy who is in my face. I get a 15 day stint in jail for assault and I have to pay a $500 fine. Then again I've never been to jail. The people I beat up are too scared to ever report me.

If it comes to harming a friend of mine. Violence is the first and only solution. Its just not wise to piss off a guy who spent a majority of his life learning hand-hand combat.

Sacrifice throw (I use to lead into arm bar)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D2pPqVZeCqc&feature=related
Arm Bar
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NOTeOSBHLU
Triangle Submission
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t4s-gtplqp0
Elbow Lock
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tawhcilX_b0&feature=related
Various others that I found while looking for vids
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4slqNGweGU&feature=related

The arm bar is still my favorite when I have to defend myself. Its the easier for me to get myself into position for. (no, I'm not bragging "I do marital arts I pwn joo" these are just things I've had an interest in since I was 8)

to be honest man, actual violence turns chicks off; they want a bad boy but not one that will actually throw down. When a girls sees a guy fighting it normally doesn't end in passionate love.

might be where the temper comment came in and hurt you.

I know exactly where the comment came from, my ex. She would spit lies and bullshit just to get the sympathy vote. In high school I never had a violent outburst and yet she would lead people to believe that every time I got annoyed about her always making us late for shit (really late like 15-30 mins) that somehow that equaled to me being a wife beater. I lost a friend in high school because she lead him to believe I beat her. Nobody even knew I had a temper back then. Nowadays its righteous anger IMHO

I've always done it just for the hell of it. i.e. I'm just a nice guy that does nice things for anyone (within reason)

hmm, ya dude, just read all the posts in this thing. Started off as one of those Anime High School things Like Rosario Vampire, This could allmost be a anime from what i read. and the whole Violance thing, If you come to my home town and drop my name a couple of times, EVRYONE knows me, No joking, Cops have a a ton of papers on my but no arrests, Fighting With Morals and honor is the only way to fight, uhhh....what was i geting at....oh ya, the whole girl thing, Can't give ya mutch advice on that, after i dated me 4th Girlfriend out of High School, no Chick in me home town would accept a date from me (Long Story I'll Just say i know stuff that would make another Anarchist cook book and it was the 4th of july)But if you really wana try and change the girls mind of you, you could
1: Do and Show her some things that would change her mind I.E, go to a anger managment class for a while, Do some Comunity Work, Raise a Hurt Puppy, and more suff on those lines, or
2: Ask her for 1 date so you can show her a ton of great stuff, to help her say yes, just explain some stuff as needed like: "If i can have one date and it dosin't work out, atleast i know i had a date with a girl i wanted to date for 7 years" or other stuff like that, then talk to her on the date, then if she asks questions, tell her the truth. Anyways, if you REALLY want the girl, be a knight and try your damn best, if she rejects you, Oh well, a friend who accepts your Beliefs is a friend you should keep(Unlike mine -_-) anyways Do it or Not, and if this Post dosin't help, Then Don't Blame me, last date i had was 3years ago

to be honest; I don't go after a lot of my chick friends because it complicates things; but the few I've gone after are no longer friends. Sometimes due to me not wanting to be around them after they've rejected me(watching them date other guys used to kill me), or because they became distant and things became awkward after. What have you decided to do? can you get over that and still be friends (while continuously letting it rip you a part)? Sometimes it's best to just walk away from the friendship. I would love to give you the "never give up" speech, it just never works out for me. It really is better to just date girls you've recently met in my opinion; who cares if they say no. A wise man once said: "Babe Ruth used to lead the league in home runs but during some of those years he also lead the league in being struck out... swing for the fences; no one remembers the strike outs but everyone remembers that beautiful girl that said yes".

*cracks knuckles* mind if i help on the punching ?

ya, Totally Understand about the whole Complicated Thing, but really, it's a win/no win situation, Stay friends and die alittle inside not knowing "What Could Happen if I did..." or go out, 1: it works out, or 2: It dosin't and being friends would be too "Strange" But you get to know that you did go out. Really, Dating is Complicated Like Shooting a revolver at your head, it works out and it's a miss or it dosin't and then SPLAT

pretty sure if you shoot a revolver at your head you're dead; do you mean if you play russian roulette?

Actually, it's "everyone remembers the Babe", which makes it a play on words. I know this because Comedy Network plays that commercial all the damn time. Curse you, Keys to the VIP!

getting a bit exact aren't we?

Ya, i did mean "Playing Russian Roulette" but it was late when i posted that, and my typing goes down hill quick when i'm tired

Can't help it, I must see that commercial 2-3 times a night when I watch the Daily Show and the Colbert Report. It kinda embeds itself into you... :lol: