scrubs pathetic love life.

So yesterday I think I went on a date. This girl and I went to a movie (zombie land, which was awesome) then we came back to my house. For some reason she helped me clean my house and then I got her to read one of my favorite comics called kick-ass. I was amazed she did not get all weirded out by my room even when I left a hentai comic that I got at Japan out on my desk. Then we talked until 2 in the morning (something I never thought I was capable of doing). Next I walked her to house and this where I got all nervous and just started muttering things. She asked if could do this again and I said, "su-sure."

What I want to know was I supposed to like kiss her or something before she left? I saw her standing there with her arms crossed looking kind of looking like she was waiting for something. she is probably at this point getting annoyed by my akwardness and lack of knowledge on this subject, unlike me, she has been in relationships before. I never been really on dates. I don't even hang around people for that matter. I've never even kissed a girl before so I did not know if I should do it and totally butcher the kiss and ruin the whole evening. Eventually she gave me a hug and I gave her a weak hug back because I really have trouble being around and even touching people most likely because I'm 20 and never did any stuff like this growing up. My mom and Dad were always busy and on top of that my Dad is expressionless like Hank Hill. She then let go and said, "really?" and then she hugged me again tighter and I actually did the first real hug of my life (yes, I know, my love life is like some pathetic grade school crush romance). But anyways I never thought it was possible to almost become hard from a hug. Then she said later and I said later and that was the end of the evening.

so what should I do now? I'm thinking of inviting her over to watch simpsons and family guy and just hang out or something. But should I try like kissing her or something? how do I initiate it? Do I just have to guess or should I just ask her beforehand? What do I do if she just wants to make out and I have no idea what to do? I don't know how to take off a bra or use a condom. I don't want screw this up.

This may not be a real advice but....be yourself. Just make it clear that you're inexperienced and want to improve yourself to make the relationship a successful one. If she's sincere with you then I think she'll help you heartily.

Whoa first of all don't try to stress over it, you've got a good thing going atm don't try to get nervous. I'll be honest you had a good chance for a kiss there but maybe for a first date that wouldn't be all too appropriate, then again I don't know the girl. Anyway seeing as she asked if you and her could do it again sometime that means see enjoyed herself and wants to be with you again, that's great btw. Don't stress over the fact that you couldn't kiss her yet, and don't worry about it when it happens. I had no real experience at kissing when my first kiss came and it somewhat came as a natural, it just happened without a hitch. But if she hugs you then at least embrace her back the same way, there's nothing wrong with that.

If you do plan on kissing her make sure the mood calls for it, don't try to surprise her, after a hug is a good time actually. From what I've read she seems to be into you, try to return her flirts so that she doesn't feel like she's stuck in the friend zone.

About all that follows, don't worry about sex just yet. Try to make it to first base then you should think about the next step. Last but not least try to stay calm, it's good for atmosphere if you stay relaxed, try to make her feel welcome.

Relax, take a breather. No seriously, take a breather!

Keep this in mind, if you go stressing around her, it'll put stress on the relationship.
Try to keep a focused and clear head and try to decipher the different moods. If you can do that you get very far.

Don't move right onto the kiss scene. Touch her first. Hug her. Then, when you get the positive feedback, you go forward and tell her how you feel and kiss her. Don't rush things. (specially the sex)

And the idea of inviting her over to watch tv - thumbs up. Nice idea (that is, if she does enjoy watching tv with you).

Also, I don't see why it's bad that you didn't kiss her. Unless she was REALLY expecting a kiss.

Granth, you really do deserve this + rep.

"Well a girl who'll kiss after first time out is usually a hussy, well a girl who'll kiss on the second time out is anything but fussy... " - Shipoopi.

But in all seriousness, you probably oughta call her or something beforehand. Do you have her number/email? Chat her up, see what she likes, then go from there. If the kiss will come, it will come, so let it come when it wants to. As for sex, hope for the best, expect the worst. Keep condoms on standby, and steer the course. If you can cook or something, that's a plus, cuz you can prepare something either before or during her visit. But I like your friendly style, but you need to man up. She's a girl, not the boogyman or Saber or something. I support you!

so yeah, everything worked out pretty well :)

I kissed a girl for the first time in my entire life and we are now going out or something like that. but yeah, awesome.

Omedetou gozaimasu! Hope you two get along well

You don't have to force it! Just go at your own pace. Once you feel that the time is right, you kiss her. :3 I'm sure she doesn't mind you being a little shy either.

Edit: I saw your new post. Congratulations! Hope you two get together well. :3

Hey that's great, congratulations. Take good care of her man, I'm sure you will!

tonight me and my girlfriend ate spaghetti, then watched The Spectacular Spider-man on DVD for 4 hours, then we made out.

just, god damn, my life somehow got totally awesome all of a sudden.

Nice man.

...too nice. ( ﾟдﾟ)

Any girl that still wants to make out with you after you watched four hours of cartoons together is a keeper. Congratulations, brother. Sounds like you found a good one.

I'm so glad for you! ^_^

*Happy face*

I'm just happy I was able to get over my fear of being around/touching people. Like before being with her I hated having any phsyical contact with anyone. I did not even like doing simple stuff like hugging my family. so yeah glad I got over that. I was unbelievable awkward around her at first but she even put up with it.

Good that things worked out for you, let it serve as a marking point that life doesn't always have to be bleak.

Take good care of her, but I'm quite sure that won't be a problem for you.

Just remember, your eyes have lost their freedom.

So true >.>