[Locked] The worst kind of depression
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Scion in chains
The Forgotten Faggot
I think I might actually cry real tears this time. My girlfriend has reeeaaally big breasts right? (I seriously think she is bordering on F cup) And they dont cause her discomfort, she likes them, I love them....So PLEASE explain to me why she wants to get breast REDUCTION! She just came by playing with them today & was like, you know, I want my breasts to be smaller. After about an hour later I snapped out of my horror and kinda got in an argument with her as to why she shouldnt reduce them, and now she wont listen to me. I was panicked...
I NEED HELP! How do you convince a girl to keep her breasts!? Im SOOOO serious I dont know what to do cause I pissed her off! Someone mourn with me at least..my precious jugs are going to get executed....DAMMIT HOW DO I CHANGE HER MIND!?
Forget it Im just going to go get wasted or something..nothing I can do now...
R.I.P Wonderful jugs...
I NEED HELP! How do you convince a girl to keep her breasts!? Im SOOOO serious I dont know what to do cause I pissed her off! Someone mourn with me at least..my precious jugs are going to get executed....DAMMIT HOW DO I CHANGE HER MIND!?
Forget it Im just going to go get wasted or something..nothing I can do now...
R.I.P Wonderful jugs...
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I know you're depressed, but that's no reason to make two threads now is it? unless a glitch occrured and this was the result.
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Scion in chains
The Forgotten Faggot
Glitch. I only posted once. Do you REALLY think I have the will to type all of that twice?
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Scion in chains wrote...
Glitch. I only posted once. Do you REALLY think I have the will to type all of that twice?Could copy and paste. I've seen it. But I believe you nonetheless.
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Well, there's the money argument. Surgery is never cheap, and if it is, you probably shouldn't get it. Might end up with some serious problems.
If she seems content with her breasts, then why should she make them smaller? I understand that big breasts can cause pain and discomfort, but it sounds like she doesn't mind them at all. Why reduce them?
If she seems content with her breasts, then why should she make them smaller? I understand that big breasts can cause pain and discomfort, but it sounds like she doesn't mind them at all. Why reduce them?
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Your girl must be on crack if she wants to reduce her breast size. Does she know how many girls would actually kill to have bigger breasts? It sounds like she's pretty comfortable with them as is so it makes no sense at all why she would want them reduced. It costs a hell of alot of money for the surgery not to mention the tons of risks that she'd b taking. I'd probably keep trying to convince her not to do the breast reduction and maybe talk with her friends into helping you convince her. Though it seems very unlikely that she'll ever be given the chance to even get the surgery.
P.S. You made 2 of the same thread, so I'm kind of guessing that it might have happened since Fakku is kind of lagging at the moment, but I'll report it and have it fixed.
P.S. You made 2 of the same thread, so I'm kind of guessing that it might have happened since Fakku is kind of lagging at the moment, but I'll report it and have it fixed.
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Waar
FAKKU Moderator
You're pretty selfish bro. Grow a sack and love her no matter what she does to herself, perhaps then you can say you truly deserve her. Pretty sure 95% of the people on these forums would love to have a girl and your selfishness is a sickening insult to those of us (myself included) who would not care how she changed herself.
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Seriously... just tell her why you think its a bad idea and then let it go. You really shouldn't try to tell other people what they should/shouldn't do (not saying that you did). All you can do it voice your objection and then let her decide. It most likely won't happen anyway because its so expensive.
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just imagine every time you look down to see if your shoe is untied you huge tits are blocking your view........
But really its her body and she might say they dont hurt but they could be also you have to take into account that people would just stare at those and she could feel uncomfortable, thats what my girl friend told me when she sees people checking her out.
So if she wants to get her breasts reduced thats her choice. if she gets smaller tits oh well shes still the same person you love and if you only go out with her for her tits than you are a shallow person, much like my old self but i would like to believe i have changed for the better.
i also have to agree with Waar, even though we have had our disagreements, be a man and suck it up.
But really its her body and she might say they dont hurt but they could be also you have to take into account that people would just stare at those and she could feel uncomfortable, thats what my girl friend told me when she sees people checking her out.
So if she wants to get her breasts reduced thats her choice. if she gets smaller tits oh well shes still the same person you love and if you only go out with her for her tits than you are a shallow person, much like my old self but i would like to believe i have changed for the better.
i also have to agree with Waar, even though we have had our disagreements, be a man and suck it up.
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Waar wrote...
You're pretty selfish bro. Grow a sack and love her no matter what she does to herself, perhaps then you can say you truly deserve her. Pretty sure 95% of the people on these forums would love to have a girl and your selfishness is a sickening insult to those of us (myself included) who would not care how she changed herself.Wow, I'm actually with Waar on this. Love her no matter what.
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Jonoe wrote...
Waar wrote...
You're pretty selfish bro. Grow a sack and love her no matter what she does to herself, perhaps then you can say you truly deserve her. Pretty sure 95% of the people on these forums would love to have a girl and your selfishness is a sickening insult to those of us (myself included) who would not care how she changed herself.Wow, I'm actually with Waar on this. Love her no matter what.
Well obviously, but a breast reduction? Come on where's the sense in that.
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Waar wrote...
You're pretty selfish bro. Grow a sack and love her no matter what she does to herself, perhaps then you can say you truly deserve her. Pretty sure 95% of the people on these forums would love to have a girl and your selfishness is a sickening insult to those of us (myself included) who would not care how she changed herself.Waar speaks for 95% of the community at FAKKU when he says "you're pretty selfish bro"
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Waar wrote...
You're pretty selfish bro. Grow a sack and love her no matter what she does to herself, perhaps then you can say you truly deserve her. Pretty sure 95% of the people on these forums would love to have a girl and your selfishness is a sickening insult to those of us (myself included) who would not care how she changed herself.I "kinda" agree with the notion, as it's totally her breasts - her decision.
I can see where the objection comes in on the grounds of concern for her though, as I personally believe casual aesthetic surgery to be just slightly gruesome, and a superfluous health risk, and would thus advise my partner to totally NOT do it on these grounds and these grounds alone.
P.S., a little thought experiment:
Spoiler:
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Yorozuya wrote...
Jonoe wrote...
Waar wrote...
You're pretty selfish bro. Grow a sack and love her no matter what she does to herself, perhaps then you can say you truly deserve her. Pretty sure 95% of the people on these forums would love to have a girl and your selfishness is a sickening insult to those of us (myself included) who would not care how she changed herself.Wow, I'm actually with Waar on this. Love her no matter what.
Well obviously, but a breast reduction? Come on where's the sense in that.
I'm with Yorozuya on this one. (sorta)
I would agree for her to do it if it causes her disconfort or she feels embarassed in public about em. I think this is one of those things she should discuss with him, wich she did. So I guess it's between you two to work it out.
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I'd say the best thing to do is to just talk it out with her. My guess is she is feeling self-conscious about her large bust side. Try to make her feel more comfortable with herself, and express your appreciation without trying to be overly sexual about it. *shrugs*
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Rbz wrote...
I doubt she's going to go from F to A cup.(basically on waar's side)F to A? That sounds like the best kind of depression. That's the kind of depression I want.
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!manup
This kinda pisses me off. And not in a "OMG FEMINIST" way but a "treat your girlfriend with respect" way. Why the Hell do you care? Big breasts = bad back. The older you get, the more you have to deal with two overgrown meatsacks growing on your chest and it weighs on you. She might not have trouble with this now but she might later when she's done growing (assuming she isn't done growing in the other parts of her body).
You (assuming you're a man) need to go and cry then. Even if she wasn't getting surgery on her boobs, you still need to treat her with respect. If you marry her, she'll be the one pushing out your kids in that hospital bed, cleaning your damn house, deal with your bitchin' and taking care of your kids. Her body may be your sex toy for that special minute run but overall, it's hers. So stfu and let her do the damn surgery if she likes.
gibbeous: Even if she wanted to get plastic surgery for her whole body, it's her decision. If no one wants her as a plastic barbie, as a trans- or as a breast reducted woman, someone else will want her lol
This kinda pisses me off. And not in a "OMG FEMINIST" way but a "treat your girlfriend with respect" way. Why the Hell do you care? Big breasts = bad back. The older you get, the more you have to deal with two overgrown meatsacks growing on your chest and it weighs on you. She might not have trouble with this now but she might later when she's done growing (assuming she isn't done growing in the other parts of her body).
You (assuming you're a man) need to go and cry then. Even if she wasn't getting surgery on her boobs, you still need to treat her with respect. If you marry her, she'll be the one pushing out your kids in that hospital bed, cleaning your damn house, deal with your bitchin' and taking care of your kids. Her body may be your sex toy for that special minute run but overall, it's hers. So stfu and let her do the damn surgery if she likes.
gibbeous: Even if she wanted to get plastic surgery for her whole body, it's her decision. If no one wants her as a plastic barbie, as a trans- or as a breast reducted woman, someone else will want her lol
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jmason
Curious and Wondering
The decision will ultimately be her's. You can talk her out of it, but at least put yourself in her shoes while discussing it and maybe you'll see some light - I mean, for a guy it's not that big a deal but for women it could be, especially if she can't walk down a street without getting a lusty stare or two from passing-by men.
But if you want a good argument point, your winning side would be on stimulating her self-confidence. You can argue that she's fine the way she is and changing herself to suit the public opinions of what breast size should be is a wrong way of thinking, she should value herself a little bit more.
Anyway, it's her ball to play with. If she really(10x) wants to, you'll have no choice but to step aside. Remember that women value respect more than we men think they do.
But if you want a good argument point, your winning side would be on stimulating her self-confidence. You can argue that she's fine the way she is and changing herself to suit the public opinions of what breast size should be is a wrong way of thinking, she should value herself a little bit more.
Anyway, it's her ball to play with. If she really(10x) wants to, you'll have no choice but to step aside. Remember that women value respect more than we men think they do.