[Locked] The worst kind of depression

Yes, but it's about informing her of the consequences. If I had a girlfriend who was planning on going through some kind of surgery, I would argue against it only because of the possible consequences, not my personal preferences. Then, it's up to her whether to listen or not.

gibbeous... funny.

The thing is, it's her body. She wants the breast reduction for some reason, and it's not his nor anyone else's place to tell her not to get it.

Small breasts are better then large breasts, so I'm with her on that.

The thing is, do you have any right to tell her what to do with her body? Do you own her?

I don't think so. Not since slavery was abolished.

Thus, her body, her choice.

I'm with waar and the rest. Don't be an ass.

You guys say that he should love her no matter what, but what if this isn't a very serious relationship? If they were married for twelve years, then certainly, he should let her do whatever she wants with her breasts, but if they've been dating for twelve weeks, there's not a gigantic emotional connection that will never be broken, and her losing her big breasts may make him not want to date her. Maybe she has a few good points, a lot of bad points, and huge tits, and he decides he'll put up with her shit because of her tits.

Or maybe he was intentionally exaggerating for the sake of humor, pretending like his girlfriend getting a breast reduction is the end of the world for him to make people laugh. It tends to happen, especially in Random.

If my spouse ever wanted me to be the sole responsibility for those things, he wouldn't be my spouse anymore.

Waar I couldnt have said it any better, Its her decision not yours, and you should be content with her decison.

We all just fed the troll... lol jk. Yeah I just kind of thought of it as well, they aren't in a serious relationship so if the guy wanted to he could just end the relationship. I'm all for letting her make her own decision since its her own body, but for me making such a rash decision requires some scolding or a talk on why she wants the surgery/the risks she will be taking.

hah, ending a relationship based on the size of a girls tits... yeah you're right shagg, a real winner who totally deserves to have a girl to call his own...

Its her body, not yours, dude. She can do with it what she wants.

I've said my two cents.

thakns!

It's not like anybody here knows the full story. For all we know, she could have a hideous growth on her face that he bears with so he can play with her sweater meat.

Even if she doesn't, I think it's perfectly fine to break up with a girl due to not liking something about her physical appearance if it's not a serious relationship. If I had been dating a girl for a month and couldn't stand her gigantic ass, I wouldn't feel bad about dumping her. It's only been a month. It's no big deal.

The way people are talking, it's as if they'd be upset if any guy ever broke up with his girlfriend, for any reason, just because they don't have girlfriends. That's silly. No guy should stay with a girl just because he's one of the "lucky few" with a girlfriend.

Besides, where did Scion say that he was going to break up with her if she got her breasts reduced? Nowhere. He just said that he was upset about it and wanted to change his girlfriend's mind. Not really the worst thing a human being has ever said.

If his only reasoning for dating her is her tits then he doesn't deserve to date her in the first place shagg, you of all people should not be judging a girl based solely on her looks and you know it. It's alright to not date a girl based on her looks because you cant date someone you are physically not attracted to but to ask someone not to do something to their own body because of selfish reasoning is not, how do you not see that? No one said he should stay with her because the rest of us don't have one, who's ass did you pull that out of? I'm simply saying you should cherish her no matter what she does, even if it leads to breaking up with her, because some of us aren't that lucky. You implied that he would not be able to stay with her if it was done, that due to some other possible situation (facial disfigurement) he may not be able to continue his relationship. Sure it's not the worst thing a human being has said on this site but it's pretty fucking selfish and as for what he should do: he should remove the douche from his ass and man up a bit; no one is perfect so deal with it.

p.s. you need to stop putting words in my mouth, really invalidates your arguments.

Do you wax your eyebrows?

She's not leaving you for your small dick, so you should stay with her and her smaller breasts.

Kind of bad to complain about me putting words in your mouth when you put words in Scion's mouth first. (Saying that he's going to end the relationship because of her getting her breasts reduced, which he never said at all.)

Anyways, my only argument is that this guy isn't the next Hitler for not wanting his girlfriend to get a breast reduction. (I'm using a hyperbole, just so it's clear.) Everybody's acting like he's an asshole, but I'd be upset if my girlfriend had big tits and wanted to get rid of them. I probably wouldn't be as dramatic as Scion's post was, but, as I've already pointed out, that could have been intentional exaggeration for the sake of humor.

Also, as I've already said, we don't know the full story. He could have started dating her solely for her big boobs. Is that horrible? No. I'd be lying if I said that I wouldn't date an incredibly hot girl if she wanted to be with me, even if we had almost nothing in common. But even if she has other qualities that he likes, even if they are soulmates (as if such things even exist), Scion is only saying that he is sad that she wants to decrease the size of her breasts. What's so wrong with that? He wants to know if it is possible to change her mind. That suggests that she hasn't been complaining for the past five years about her huge tits and how much trouble they are. In fact, he even says that they don't cause her discomfort and that she likes them. Her wanting to get them reduced comes out of left field. When your partner suddenly says that they want to have surgery done, without any hint of desire in the past, you're going to be thrown off balance, right?

Maybe I'm not taking this seriously enough, but it's a guy saying in Random that his girl wants to get breast reduction surgery, and he's upset by it. The guy uses a lot of caps lock in the thread, and he even ends with what seems like a joke. There's no reason to assume that the guy is saying that he believes that no woman should ever get breast reduction surgery. There's no reason to assume that he is going to break up with his girlfriend if she gets the surgery. There's not even any reason to assume that he is going to fight tooth and nail against his girlfriend to try to change her mind. So why call him an asshole and douche and whatever other names people threw out? Aren't we all entitled to complain at least a little if our partner wants to do something that we don't want? Or should people jump all over my ass if I don't want my girlfriend to get her nipple pierced or have a big butterfly tattooed on her back? (Granted, those aren't the best comparisons, since breast reduction actually has benefits, but it's the same idea - can the boy/girlfriend say anything if the other person wants to alter his/her body in some way?)

That is full of win right there.

thanks!

Thank you Shaggy Jebus for defending me, AND for doing it in an awesome and intelligent way.

Sorry it took so long for me to reply to this after I posted that thread I went out and got super wasted. Then, and here is the fucked up thing, it turns out the next day while Im all depressed and going through the worst hang over, she tells me she was just playing with me in the first place and wasnt really getting a reduction, but when I reacted so.....unintelligently it spiralled into an argument and she apparently didnt feel like explaining anymore. So...yeah, she made an ass of me.

Also, to the rest of you(Waar in particular)who decided to try to go off on me because I got depressed about something I love being taken from me for no good reason you can all just shut the fuck up. One, I didnt ask for flame, I asked for assistance in POSSIBLY changing her mind. Two, No fuckers Im not just going out with her because of her wonderful and humongous breasts. Im going out with her because she is smart, we both work in the same field, and we are both assholes all around. Her having big ass titties is just the icing on my favorite cake. Three, I never said I was leaving her over her breasts getting smaller, I said I was depressed because of that. If that is bad to you I honestly dont give a fuck. And Waar, dude you dont even know her or anything about her so how the fuck can you judge anything that Im complaining about without this basic information about the both of us anyways. All you knew was that she has big breasts, she is my girlfriend, and she wanted to get her breast size reduced for no good reason all(Which also most of you neglected to include in your responses.)

To those of you that gave me an honest opinion about you thinking I was overreacting, thank you and I dont mind that. But to those of you who assumed things about the two of us & what I decided to do about it you can honestly kiss my ass. No, wait not even my ass. Ill let you kiss my girls fat cat Willow's ass.

You fuckers were so eager to try to fuck with me you didnt even realize what I posted the discussion for. You probably just read the first few sentences and decided to give an half assed response. Im actually tired of typing so no wall of text this time, im just going to go snuggle inbetween MY girlfriends huge breasts and eat skittles out of them & call it a night, all while the both of us assholes laugh about how she totally got me and how you fuckers honestly thought I was going to leave this girl. Night.

I would also like to point out that I said no changing her mind now, so Ill just go get wasted. Which I did. TO THE EXTREEEEME! Miracle I got home okay actually...so there is another point.

Dude calm down... you take the internet way too seriously. I can understand that you need to correct your image and defend your girlfriend, but bitching about it in a post isn't gonna make it any better. In the long run we were trying to help you out, though the heated discussion between Shaggy and Waar wasn't necessary it tends to happen all the time. Anyways I guess me and others can say we're glad your girl changed her mind, so take it easy now.