AmT wrote...
Rayne wrote...
I guess I'll put my serious list here. This is what I find attractive in a guy.
Witty humor
Sarcastic
Dark hair
Dark eyes
Glasses
Honest
Taller than me
Accent
Knows how to treat women
Geeky
Loyal
Affectionate
Intellect
Knows how to cook
Loves computers
Romantic
Causal or formal clothing style
A nice / warm smile
Has a back bone
Can put up with my sadistic nature
Yeah, this has been the list in my head of a 'perfect guy' ever since I was about twelve or thirteen. I've changed it up a bit over the years, but it's pretty much the same.
cooks has a back bone and puts up with a sadist so you want a walking oxymoron
Not really. I know a guy that has those qualities.
Seriously though, I don't know why people care about others' lists being 'an oxymoron'. It's just a fucking list. I don't expect a guy to have each and every quality on that list. It's just a general "what I find attractive" not a "the guy I date / marry HAS to have EACH and EVERY one of these qualities" list.
Oh, and I seriously don't know what kind of guy cooks you know - but the ones I've met ALL have back bones. I honestly don't know what you're going on about. You're generalizing. Some cooks are spineless some aren't. It's pretty dumb reason to call those qualities an oxymoron.